Abounding Love is Divinity's Ultimate Beatitude

We are proud for who we are as a nation, a fandom that's all about peace and love. However, we have our limits and we tend to be worse than what we are trying to project. It is true to say that "The higher we are, the harder we fall." In my premise to this case, the higher our status is, as a fandom, the harder it becomes for us to keep up our reputation when something goes wrong. I am one with the many men that would protect Maine and Alden from any form of malicious and maligning statements created to tear down what is good and wholesome. But yielding ourselves to anger is not always the best solution. I know it can be hard to contain. Believe me, I have been in many situations where my unsuppressed feelings got the best of me, often making me learn lessons the hard way. And we do not want that to happen to the AlDub nation, knowing that mistakes of a few could generalize the whole group and tarnish our well-earned name.

We, as humans, are not used to accepting views and opinions that are contradictory to our own. As part of our nature, we tend to create justifications, excuses, and explanations as to why we are firm on our side of belief and choice. While it is noble for us to stay our foot on solid ground, there's also a thin line being marred as it happens; the line between protecting and defending.

When we protect, we keep everything safe, at the expense of our own, for the sake of coexistence and mutual interest. But when we defend, we take a course of action to rebut, counter, or reverse the damage being dealt, affecting the offending party and leaving either side scarred after an attack.

In the perception of protection, we use our concept of negating the hate, changing the mindset of the offender, either rendering the attack to nothing or non-impacting. It is the same principle of using a shield to block an attack and proceed with negotiations of peace or ending conflict through persuasion or reason. It's the same method we used for making #RIPAldenRichards a success or turning #AsalKalye from bad to good.

However, when we defend, the goal is to take revenge or get back at the offense made. It's like using the sword to block an attack. The instant we are able to develop a stance for reciprocating damage, and we create an opening, then we abuse that opportunity; thus, the culmination of bloodshed and afflicting the offender. We may be able to end the conflict at that point, but resorting to such methods will harbor more offense and hate; which, in turn, becomes the perfect ingredient for war.

To tell you, Maine and Alden have been consistent in reminding us to keep down and just say good things to others. The love team told us time and time again to remove the negativity and keep the good vibes rolling. In a way, staying away from a fight is the very model one person I know is doing. I want to share some things about him because he's a perfect role model to me, and maybe to the rest of us.

When this certain person lived, he discussed many things about putting down our pride and overcoming the old culture of "an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth." He had done away feelings of revenge. He even mentioned that we should be tolerant of the mistakes and offense of others; that when we are hit on one cheek, that we should give the other to be slapped. That when we are robbed of our clothes, that we give away our coat also. That we should love and pray for our enemies that they may be blessed. It may be a challenge to all of us, but that person knew it would be possible if we become as little children, slow to anger, wrath, and hate.

He had shown it by example to the believers. He has been accused of different crimes he never committed. Naysayers have made false statements against him. He was rejected, scorned, beaten, abused, spit upon, and punished, despite of being innocent and pure. His skin without blemish was lashed with the whips of misconception and misunderstanding. He kept his peace, he did not say a word to those who have reviled him of his identity and maligned him of his destiny. In the end, even in his last breath of life, he asked his father to forgive those who did not know what they do.

He had done everything he could. Some say that he's already perfect, a reason only acceptable for the divine to make. But he admonished at the end of his sermon that we should be perfect, even as his father is. He was subject to everything that all of us have experienced. He knew it was hard, but he knows it is possible.

Why bring this up? Because as humans, we tend to forget sometimes. Both Maine and Alden are God-fearing, peace-loving people. They, just like the rest of us, are also striving to be individuals of good moral standing. And they know getting in arguments and word wars do not give much benefit to us as persons. They are also trying their best to live the sermons they hear at church, or following the counsels of their parents.

So let's stop the bickering. Let's end the bad-mouthing. Let's get rid of the hate we feel in our hearts. I was also hurt when I saw Yaya Dub being called as Yaya Dog by a viewer from the other station. But I don't have to act against it since feeding the fire will only make things bad as it is. Worse, it may even result in the fandom being connoted as hypocrites because of my actions that may affect others who are living the decree of the AlDub Nation. So rather than pestering ourselves on the thought of getting back at them, let's just be thankful that people like them exist. Their existence bring into being the opposition that has been the fruit of the choices every people make. That what makes a person happy is different from the concept of one and another. Let's just pray that their words won't turn against them. After all, justice is served for the innocent, at the right place, at the right time, at the best possible circumstance.

Individuals are entitled to express their opinion, whether it agrees or opposes our view. They can say anything they want, as long as their objective is to voice out their thoughts, discuss their perception, and they mean no ill to anyone. It may not exactly be what we want, but respecting anyone's right for self-expression promotes improvement, development, growth, maturity, and progress.

There are two things I want to leave with you as I end this entry, which best describes AlDub through the sermons shared by the Son of God himself:

A-bounding
L-ove is
D-ivinity's
U-ltimate
B-eatitude

This he gave unto us because:

A-lways
L-oving
D-eserves
U-nfathomable
B-lessings

May we all be blessed as we, the AlDub Nation, do everything we can to "protect" the fandom that we hold so dear in our hearts.

AlDub for Love

Back then, I used to like the AlDub love team because of the kilig Yaya Dub and Alden brings to me everytime I watch them on screen. However, that changed little by little and that reason may no longer be the same. Yes, the kilig sensation may be there still, but it's already waning, becoming weaker by the day.

While that may sound ironic to some, my justification for such feelings are, if you could say, not fixated with the conventional. Yes, I no longer have the liking feeling much because I am now loving the AlDub love team for the influence they have written in my being. It's like their happiness is my happiness, and their pain, my pain. And while all of us may think of over 1001 ways why we love AlDub, I would just like to iterate a few that what I think had changed me for the better.

1. They make me smile
Honestly, I don't really know why they make me smile. Worse, I find myself making a happy face whenever I hear Kalyeserye songs, when I see their commercials, when I read anything about them in newspapers, or even seeing their products anywhere. It's just like infatuation, but I am not anxious nor distracted when I don't get a dose of their presence. Even just seeing the pictures of Maine, Alden, or both, make my countenance light up. They make my day lighter. They make my problems a little lesser of worry. They bring out the best in me.

2. They bring out good vibes
One of the things that I love about AlDub, the nation, the people, and the celebrities involved, is the reality that they're the only group I know that brings out the positive vibe in everything. Even in the midst of great opposition, the fans and the personalities do not show signs of anger, of revenge, of hate, or of animosity. They spread love, promote unity, and exemplify what it means to be peace-loving people. It has affected me greatly that my outlook towards life itself changed. I have developed the attitude of optimism and the attribute of hope. I hold on to the good side of every given situation, even when reality reaks of negativity and pessimism. The AlDub Nation has even mastered the mindset of seeing the good in rude, and the rad in bad. It's just amazing that I find it simply a breath of fresh air. They negate the hate, shed light in a fight, and promote peace in crisis.

3. They taught me life-changing lessons
This perhaps could be the one thing that makes this love team unique from everything else I have known in the past. Ever since I watched the Kalyeserye from day one, I am moved and stirred by the lessons being shared by Lola Nidora, as given based on the growing relationship between Yaya and Alden. It's a segment that could be watched by all ages since the morals being imparted is all about love, patience, hard work, trust, respect, and even loyalty; to which different kinds of viewers can relate to. There are also other gems found in the segment that's ought to be appreciated. Some include good table manners, importance of taking meds on time, good grooming, valuing siblinghood, improving talents, the rewards of a good education, the pleasures of being sober, and many more. But of the many lessons imparted, perhaps it is more important if we are to take these as wisdom on our part. We should learn how to apply these in our daily lives and change for the better.

4. They bring back old school values
One of the consequences wrought upon by growing technology is the changing mindset of people when it comes to time and values. The cherished virtue of the olden age is gradually forgotten for being old in itself. Meaning, the old becomes obsolete since the new will come in. That's how technology is these days, just like mobile phone models, TVs, and even cars; when a new model comes out and it has more to offer, then the older model is either sold, given away, or just thrown out for good. That's almost the same kind of treatment certain values are facing.

Yes, cultural practices and heritage are slowly decaying due to the shifting mindset of the modern age. Addressing older people with "po" "opo" and "ho" or "oho" are not much observed from the youth. Pagmamano is changed to just saying hello, or worse, they just forget it completely. Courting between a man and a woman no longer involve physical interaction or the parents, where mere texting, sending private messages, and tweeting becomes an avenue of communication. The view of creating life is now taken as a form of time-wasting entertainment where two strangers can break their virtue because they just feel like it, for fun, or for fueling curiosity; without thinking of the consequences, or worse, willingly spilling the blood of a helpless victim just to escape from the sins committed. The youth easily neglect, disrespect, and speak ill of their parents and choose friends over the very people that made their existence possible. Women don't mind wearing clothing that expose much flesh for the sake of begging for the wrong attention.

A hard pill to chew, right? While the rest of the world is following every wave of the trend, even at the expense of the morals and good traditions we have grown to live and love, Kalyeserye is going against the flow of the wrong. They are infusing old school values that are slowly fading in the midst of the limelight or in the memories of modern-day families. I am proud of their aim to restore the heritage of the past, the good cultures known to every proud Filipino.

5. They appreciate every talent
Everyone here at AlDub Nation will never deny that the fandom has been a breeding ground for growing talent. It was for this very reason my blog was born in the first place. While the rest of us are begging for Alden and Maine to notice our presence in social media, some have stepped up and used their talents, not only for attention, but also for making the AlDub Nation grow due to cultivated talent. Bloggers create heart-warming, mind-tickling, and insight-gaining entries. Graphic designers and layout artists render image edits and art that pleases the eyes. Songwriters and playwrights use their sense of drama and wordplay into concocting works that make people mellow. Brilliant minds fuse together and come up with ideas that will improve, not just the fandom, but every individual as well. The appreciation may not be reciprocated by Alden or Maine personally liking our tokens of creativity, but the AlDub Nation compensates more than enough with words of encouragement, phrases of appreciation, and thoughts that boost self-esteem. It just makes you want to do more because your well-exerted effort will never be disregarded for naught. In fact, every ounce of your talent contributes to the growing number of tweets as members of the fandom do their share in noticing your skills and talents. You will never feel abandoned or neglected.

These may be just five of the many reasons why I love AlDub as it is today, and there may be more reasons for others. But whatever the case may be, our love for both Alden and Maine are knit together as one nation. The kilig is still there, yes, but I feel more of love to everything Kalyeserye. It keeps on growing everyday.

More Than Meat's The Eye

The path to fame is a long and tiring journey. Despite that there are those who have treaded the straight road to stardom with all the reality shows to promote exposure, there are some who wane and falter in the end. To sum it all up, being famous must have face value, talent, skill, and charisma.

I have seen Alden Richards in the limelight for a while. He had his share of teleserye shows, movies, drama specials, and some hosting. He is handsome, yes, and he has some acting skills to boot. But what he showed was never enough to gain the kind of popularity that would cause a nation to create a kind of uproar that seasoned or well-rounded celebrities could stir.

His drive for fame was totally different. His promise of popularity was a fulfillment of a dream; an endearing keepsake for a mother that wanted to see her son rise to fame. He did not have the celebrity blood running through his veins, nor was he a top placer in a search for future talents. Alden started from humble beginnings, exerting his time and effort. He was optimistic that everything will pay off if he becomes consistent with his ultimate goal. I think that was one of the best reasons I could think why he's well-mannered, non-egoistic, and down-to-earth. Despite of what he has achieved, he knows and remembers the people that helped him reached the pinnacle of his professional career. He has an attitude of gratitude, and is never afraid of professing his faith in God to others. You could still see him bow down in humility in spite of all that he has received.

Thinking about it, Alden has been prepared since his early days in the showbiz industry. He met a girl in a magazine event, where he was in a modelling stint. He's not even that famous back then that he's known by his biological name. Richard had a picture with a young girl who sported a long wavy hair, beaming that attractive metallic smile. That moment was but a drop of water in the pool of fate. It's not even considered a time of magical expectations, or a chance to be etched in eternity. The union of these two individuals is but a sideshow of what occured that day.

Why am I relating the meeting of the two lovers now? That's because there was one element in Alden's career that was never apparent with his peers. The once drop of water in the puddle has turned into a ripple of fate-changing waves that caught both Alden's and Maine's career in a frenzy. You could say that Alden's break was a God-given chance for him to realize his potential as an actor, a performer, and a host. He was blessed with tons of commercials, a major role in a movie with Vic Sotto and Ai-Ai, a Sunday noontime show, a slot at Eat Bulaga, record-breaking mall shows, and an album, where which a single topped the iTunes charts. The blessings are just pouring that there's no more room enough to receive.

As you look at Alden now, he's already at that point where you could take him as a national phenomenon. He has been given the title of Pambansang Bae to celebrate, not only the charm that captivated the whole nation, but also the perfect representation of a guy that ladies want for a man. When girls see him appear on TV, no matter the slot, they can't help but scream with adoration.

All of this is nothing but an introduction...

Due to his status as now being the most attractive and most-sought male celebrity of the moment, it is only natural that its network would grab all the chance it could get to boost the ratings of other shows. Meaning, even without him exerting too much effort, shows would be benefited even by his mere presence.

Now the question: Why is there a need for Alden to be marketed the way we, as fans, see on Sunday PinaSaya and CelebriTV?

I had to raise this question so bad because I am worried of his welfare. I'm a guy, and I know most guys are looking for the same kind of attention Alden is getting. But to handle that kind of abuse where some, insensitive and selfish, women touch his body is not psychologically and mentally healthy. Unfortunate to us, one of Alden's weaknesses, though in a seemingly good way, is that he does not mind doing whatever is needed of him AT ANY GIVEN SITUATION. He is decent with his fans. He does not really know how to say no, particularly to the people that helped cultivate his fame.

He is so mild natured that some take his attitude to the point of abuse.

If the fans truly adore Alden Richards for the Bae that he is, I think they should respect his being and his virtue as a normal person. Though sometimes it cannot be helped, fans should exercise restraint so that GMA would not get the wrong sign that Alden being presented as meat, is okay with the masses.

He is talented, dashing, and God-fearing. We all know that already. So why not bring him to the sandbox so that he could grow as an actor, or a singer, or a performer? There is no substitute to experience. Skills and talents are further developed when given the right opportunity for exercising and learning.

And to honestly say, exposing Alden to, forgive me for the term, flesh-hungry ladies, does not benefit him in any way. He can get the same kind of fan support by just singing or hosting. You could see all that through his mall shows. When Alden is there, people just can't help to see him. His mere presence is already a reward on its own. Did he need to bare flesh or dance erotically? No!

As I end this entry, let me be one of the many who appeals that Alden should be presented in a wholesome way. That he deserves a whole lot more. He's more than meat's the eye.

Bring it to the Streets

Even on a Sunday, when no Showtime or Eat Bulaga is on air, the bickering and the mud-throwing did not seem to stop. Worse, the opposition has taken it a level higher to give the Kalyeserye a bad name, thus creating the hashtag, Asal Kalye.

In the simplest sense of the word, the term Asal Kalye connotes something negative. People who lounge in the streets all day do not have better things to do. Profane, disrespectful, being violent, impulsive, irrational, dishonest, and complacent, among many others, are the attitudes attributed to those people who grew on the streets...

However, there is something deeper in understanding what can be seen in the streets.

It is therefore safe to assert that one's perception of things is clouded when the intent is to mean ill. If the ignorant and blind only knew how significant the streets are in our lives.

I, for one, grew in the streets. No, I know that my parents aren't irresponsible. They're actually caring, concerned, and hard working. I live in a place where the streets are free for children to play; to experience the best of what childhood has to offer. They let me play outside because I can know myself better; that I would know what would interest me; that I can choose my friends and make small choices. In fact, many of us have learned some of the most painful and powerful lessons a kid could easily understand:

"When you try something new, even with all your joy, anticipation, and eagerness, you will never get it right the first time. Help will be provided on all sides; ahead, on your left and right, and behind you. But despite of the assistance, you will still stumble and fall. When you find yourself dragged down to the floor and feel the shame because of your mistakes despite showing effort, rise up proud because you have tried hard. When you gain scars from your trials, look at it as a mark of experience and learning. As you try over and over again, you'll be able to perfect your newly acquired knowledge, thus becoming a master of your own self."

Now to those who grew in the streets, you'll know, even without me giving a clue, that this is all about riding a bike the first time. That moment from my childhood taught me many things that I still apply in my life today. It helped me to go on against bullying, it helped me accept failures in school, and it supported me in times when I thought my life was a mess. To many others also, this is a lesson they carry through life's newly-found horizons.

As you assess how the streets affected your lives, you will come to realize that all you enjoy now will never be reached, if it were not for the streets that lead you to your destination: your dreams, ambitions, and goals are all paved by the streets that go from your doors to the roads.

And just recently, the very streets, that some are taking as a "bad reflection of society", has given a whole new meaning of what's to be in a kalye. A series of events that involved a Yaya, a Lola, an Alden, and many others, made us remember a very important thing we all ought to never forget: that our lives are connected to the streets. Almost every moment of our lives were captured by the sands and dusts that were shaken by our feet. Many of our memories were etched in the humps, the posts, and even the gutters. It has been a witness to seeing our first crush, making that first stare, and executing that first hand wave... These are some of the many firsts, aside from what Maine encountered, that were experienced by some people reading this blog. Oh the joy of first romance, all happening in the streets of limitless possibilities.

The very Kalyeserye despised by some is now creating history as we know it. And not just history in the streets of Manila, but in many paths all over the world, even conquering the very fibers of the World Wide Web. Just like the iconic EDSA Revolution taking place in the streets, the AlDub Nation is making a revolution no fandom has ever done before; turning the tides of war and hate into an avenue of peace and love... Just like that time in 1986. Every attempt made to destroy the foundations of this fandom was converted from a valley of trash to a field of blooming flowers. It was almost a miracle everytime, it's like turning water into wine. Seeing at how the epitome of kindness and goodness radiating to the fans, turning the negative into the positive, is just fascinating!

Some may think that comparing the movement of the AlDub Nation to such a monumental event may be an exaggeration of sorts. Think about it. People coming from all walks of life, the rich and the poor, male and female, young and old, have united together in the cause of believing that old traditions never run out of style; that love is worth fighting for, that the idea of forever is worth dying for. The yellow bandanas everywhere. The trail of roses on the floor. The drizzling rain from the sky. The anthem of "God Gave Me You" sounded in the airwaves. The image is so much a bliss. The heart and mind of every member of the AlDub Nation is moving for change that would break the conventionalism of pessimistic and demoralizing prototypes.

To say that the streets reflect of incivility is actually ironic as these paved paths were created and designed by brilliant minds that pursue the study of erecting structures that hasten and improve man's way of life.

To connote that the streets are nothing but stagnant stations of neglect and forgetfulness may not be entirely true. There are streets that actually reflect years of history, heritage, and culture as emulated in fiestas celebrated all over the country, or the cobbled paths of distant past.

To imply that the streets is nothing more than a circus, a place of clowns and animals, is simply absurd. Some of the most brilliant minds known in generations past were not developed inside schools or learning establishments. They were dropped out, rejected, and deprived of their value as people. However, the streets became their teacher. They were taught lessons that would never be taught in the limiting four corners of school or home. They became successful due to the education shoved by harsh and unfair reality. They stood up beyond conformity and shook the world because of their unorthodox ideas. Being Street Smart is the name of the game. Think of the names that made revolution a rebellion of the traditional. The AlDub Nation stands along that line, and is now changing the face of negative entertainment.

Asal Kalye? Yes! I am proud to be asal kalye! I am proud of respecting the elderly, giving way to hurrying drivers, sustaining police officers, caring for the environment, honoring the value of time, and stopping for striving pedestrians.

We would like to bring our battles to the streets! No, it's not because it's spacious and we can beat the bashers at our mercy. We'll bring it to the streets because it's open, diverse, and converging. That's how we are, every individual, here at AlDub Nation!

The Reaction to the Desperation

It has been over days since we have seen the competition run in the airwaves. Unfortunately, what's supposed to be expected as healthy competition is no longer as beneficial due to the trash talking and the harsh throwing of words intended to shake the stand of another.

Whether it be a member of the AlDub Nation or not, you can feel the tension between the two shows. As a member of this peace-loving, God-fearing, and comaraderie-promoting fandom, I, for one, feel that I need to express my deepest thoughts about this arising situation. I know I may not be able to change much of what's happening now, but voicing out my mind would give solace not just to me, but to many others who are sharing the same sentiment.

First of all, I am alarmed at how Sir Joey has been quite blunt in the word wars lately. I am reading his tweets and he has never been more frank, crossing the usual line of overtones that he has been frequent in treading. But from what I know of him, he is usually safe with his choice of words, not unless provoked and pushed to the edge. Meaning, his patience has been tested with all the maligning over social media and on air.

Competition, over history, has been a measure of pushing the limits of two or more entities in excelling and improving their current situations to fight for anything that will make them supreme. In short, competition is supposed to be a catalyst of progress and development. However, it is not the case recently. The more competitive the shows become, the uglier the scenario looked.

The other party has become desperate in going at par with what Eat Bulaga has been showing: rating, after rating, after rating. Showtime wanted to at least have a fair share of the noontime pie.

They suddenly emphasized Twitter's viewer value due to the number of tweets the AlDub Nation achieves on a daily basis: A million a day. I was surprised at the sudden change of pace, thinking that they could have the advantage if the show could flash the Hashtags that people could follow. For the AlDub fans, the story is different. It's the fan groups that unitedly decide on the HTs and the EB celebrities follow through: now that's fan support at its finest!

Even the support system in the fandom is different. You can only feel good vibes coming from each other. They also correct each other when HTs are wrong. No scolding, no power-tripping. Members also try their best to boost the morale of every individual in every endeavor. Artists, poets, bloggers, animators, graphic designers, video editors, tweet statisticians and many others find their talents valued in this group. They bring in the spirit of Bayanihan in Twitter and you could see history unfold day after day, unmatched by any other fandom in the country.

We do not incubate contention and bashing in this group. However, just as an anecdote goes: "Buddha will get angry when hit three times", it is true with the rest of us. When the going gets tough, we have to protect, but not in the spirit of revenge or hitting back. Instead, we pray for them and ask The Lord to bless them that their feelings of hate and animosity would go away. Making the world a much peaceful and happy place to live in.

Alas, the other noontime show found itself a keg to fire in this battle of ratings. Through another YouTube sensation, they have kindled their flame of hope thinking that following the same model created by Eat Bulaga would work for them. However, it will never be enough.

Placing a girl with poor morals, filthy language, unhealthy lifestyle, and poor grammatical skills, despite of working in a call center, will never come close. And to make matters worse for them, they also have done the most shameful thing a competitor would do for itself: to copy, unadmitedly accept defeat, and just survive the fight. The show displaced its pride and principles just to keep up the pace. Imagine Anne Curtis, a famous celebrity royalty at the other station, gives way to a not-so-famous pastry maker for ratings. How pitiful and sorry is that kind of situation? They have celebrities that have great talent. They have 2 lead vocalists, a world-famous singer who became popular in the UK, a member of an iconic national dancing group, a former player at a national rugby team, a daughter of a diva, a celebrity that has millions of followers over Twitter, and a knowledgeable weather reporter. Oh, and I forgot to include the Korean, along with the trash-talking bashing stand-up comedian.

Have you seen their line-up? Looking at it in a non-biased perspective, they have a powerhouse that could set their own trend! But no, they have placed their fate to a nobody who rants ill of her former love life. As if that would really turn the table around. Is it not ironic?

I am actually feeling sorry for Showtime to be honest. They have established a forte that used to set itself apart from other shows. They used to excel in their own craft and creativity.

However, because of their lust for success and attention, they threw everything away, all the years that they invested for showmanship. They wasted their originality for a shot at glory. The sight is almost cringing. They trashed the moral values of courtship and love enduring. They are teaching their viewers that Twitter is a place to find love, when it's not supposed to be the case. That you can hurry love and lay everything else aside. That swearing is okay and justifiable when you are angry and upset. That it's okay if your parents are not in the know of your relationship and you can go on like nobody cares. That your children can look up to older teens that smoke and have vices.

This fandom is more than just a million tweets if that's what most people think. Behind those tweets are individuals from all walks of life who believe in the power of love that lasts forever. We are believers of a relationship that's fostered by time, patience, and effort. That being old school in courtship and dating is very noble. We are pushing for Alden and Maine for being God-fearing, fun-loving, and fan-supporting. We were not forced and we're also not desperate.

And for the members of our fandom who have tarnished our name as the AlDub Nation? We would like to sincerely apologize on their behalf for barging into groups and pages to defend the love team. They have been moved from their safe stations due to the abuse the fandom is experiencing. We never encourage anyone to step up and fight. They are merely taking defense from attacks that were never intended in the first place.

We, however, are not lenient of such situations and we continue to counsel with them to hold their peace and be loving people; just as how Maine and Alden would want for the members of this world-dominating fandom. We feel sorry for the desperation and hopefully the attempts to gain some ratings would give you the relief sought for the 2-month ultimatum the network has given your show.

The Second Monthsary: My AlDub Conversion Story

September 16, 2015 marks the second month of the moment that changed noontime TV and the lives of millions of people. I for one was changed because of what Yaya Dub and Alden showed on one sunny afternoon during Eat Bulaga's Juan for All segment, Problem Solving. I was never able to see the episode that day, but the story about a live "on screen kilig" got my wife curious. One time, she viewed the love team on TV the first time and she showed it to me. I was never interested then...

This is my conversion story, recalling how I got the AlDub fever differently than other men.

As I have mentioned above, I was not interested with Yaya and Alden, being romantic on air. I was never a fan of love stories or romantic movies. The time I'm able to watch them was with my wife, convincing me to watch so she never feels alone. I had occasional encounters of feeling kilig, but it only lasts until I see the credits roll in the end. I am never heartless, it's just that I am not into it. I am more of an intellectual spiritual anime guy and love was not much of a thing for me.

For over two months, yes, even as I write this entry, I am still amazed at how Maine and Alden influenced me the way I am now. I still ask myself at how it was possible for these two individuals to find their way into my heart and change my perspective in many ways. Some are questioning my habits, others are surprised with the manifestations I show in supporting the AlDub MaiDen love team.

Everything started on the July 20 episode, and it was a Monday. Things were busy as normal and it was lunchtime so me and my wife are eating our food while watching Eat Bulaga. We usually switch channels from 2 to 11 to see something interesting. From there, my wife mentioned of a sensation that's spreading in the airwaves and she switched the channel so we could watch Kalyeserye together. I saw what happened then and I was actually surprised that such a concept exists on Philippine TV; a story about a Yaya with a Lola, gracing the screen, and a dashing young man doing the moves on split screen. I was like, "Seriously?!" And seeing how things are turning out, I actually liked what I saw. It was funny, witty, and tastefully done. There was no dull moment, especially with JoWaPao around. There was nothing obscene or off. I had fun watching it. I felt nothing unusual yet, but I found myself smiling seeing how Yaya Dub reacts and moves. I thought she was truly unique, a presence that's one of a kind.

That evening, my wife backtracked the previous episodes over YouTube and I had to watch what she's watching because her face showed an expression I commonly see when she sees love stories. It was the July 16 episode: the day when everything began. Compared to what I felt earlier that day was totally different. When I saw Yaya Dub open her eyes when she saw Alden  looking at her on the split screen, I smiled just like her. Yes, right then and there, I somehow connected with Maine's emotions when she reacted differently. And my feelings were confirmed when the teasing barrage flew from Allan, Jose, and Paolo; not to mention Vic and Joey too, noticing that ounce of kilig with matching hiding of the face and the abrupt moving of the eyes, lips, and tongue. It was magic! I was awed with the sight of genuine emotions shown on air. Yes, my fondness to the loveteam started there. But that was never enough for me.

I wanted to know who Yaya Dub was, who she is, and why she became popular. Dubsmash is her forte. She had more dubsmash done than most individuals, and she even had some for over 1 million views due to her skills (so regardless if it's Kris Aquino she's acting on, she will still be famous anyway). She's born from a wealthy family, she graduated from a prestigious college with honors, and she loves eating street food.

But of the many things I found out that made me wanna follow her was her knack for good books and her passion for blogging (I am easily attracted to girls who have an excellent sense of grammar, who speaks and writes American English fluently). She has class, she's demure and yet she's not afraid to show her true self to anyone. She's not good at playing pretend and very sincere with her deeds and actions.

She does not mind looking ugly or feed on stuff that ordinary members of the society eat. She's far from most Class A's I could think of. Her parents and siblings are as humble as her and their wealth does not tarnish their pride or virtue as human beings. She plays the drums, she sings, she draws, and she can write poems. In a way, she's perfect but she does not mind getting dirty if time calls her to play such roles.

I guess that's why many people love her, including me, and my wife. Yes, some have digged her past and she may have follies like any other. But who are we to judge? What matters is that she's rising beyond her limits and now she has fulfilled her dream of being in showbusiness, as an actor. She received more than she deserved. She's darling and her smile could launch a million ships!

She takes time to thank her fans, does not worry of being tired answering questions over Ask.fm, gives effort to the people who follow her, and even creates videos to show gratitude to the fandom that supports her. She's not into bashing, she's a pluviophile, and loves music. She spends time with family and goes to Church on Sundays. She likes dogs and loves children.

There are so many things to like about her. And thinking about why I am a proud member of this fandom, even creating my own blog to share my thoughts and feelings, was because of her and how the AlDub love team influenced me for the many good things in the world.

And now that there's competition vyeing for the attention of the masses, I am the least worried. There's nothing that can compare to Alden or to Maine. That's a definite. After being a fan for over 2 months, I could never think of any reason to leave this God-given, fate-driven, love-stricken fandom! This may be for good and I don't mind sharing it to anyone.

My name is Josef Ray Dagatan, 32 years of age, happily married for nine years, a straight normal guy, and a proud member of the AlDub nation... And this is my conversion story.

Enter the Bandwagon

Earlier today, before the Kalyeserye segment, my wife browsed channels on TV and we saw something that was never expected of Showtime to do so bluntly. During its Advice Ganda segment, they called on a personality called "Pastillas Girl" and I became curious as to who she is.

I found out that she became a YouTube Sensation because of her instructional video about making pastillas. But even before watching, it was indicated in the title that it was a "bitter version".

So I watched the video and there was no kitchen, no aprons, no ingredients, and no props; just some girl wearing an olive-colored plain spaghetti strap and a gray background. It was no cooking show so I assumed that the "bitter" version may prove its essence.

And it did. At first, she mentioned ingredients then all of a sudden, I heard "hugot" lines coming from nowhere. But after hearing a few phrases, I already caught on the story that this is about a girl, using steps in making pastillas, to relay how she has been toyed and used by a boyfriend who plays along with different girls.

It was a bit off at first since you can already feel the hate gushing out of her gut. But worse, her simple metaphorical descriptions turned into  a whiplash of profane and crude language a little later in the vid; which I am not a fan of.

I am assuming that Showtime took her in to take a shot at raising their viewer rankings by sheltering in an online sensation and see if her presence would somehow click to the masses. I cannot tell whether their intention of helping the helpless girl is to make her happy with a love life, or to just rake in some numbers. I am not to judge, definitely.

However, comparing the status of the said "Pastillas Girl" to match that of Maine's achievements are purely unethical, malicious, maligning, and inconsiderate.

I cannot fathom that an innocent young woman, coming from a decent and God-fearing family, who became famous for dubsmashing in the sense of fun, would be compared side by side to a girl who became popular due to her hate statements and unbecoming behavior.

The Pastillas Girl could be popular on her own right. We at the AlDub Nation respect that. But to drag Yaya Dub's fame in this fiasco is one thing that we cannot take for granted. You cannot blame Maine's fans for reacting a bit off. It's a bad food to chew and she does not deserve the said insult.

As many of us here at the Nation told once before, we can brush the hate aside and live as if nothing happened. Let us just leave Showtime be and see if they would be successful in their interest in joining the bandwagon.

We AlDub You and may you be blessed in making those who were fooled by love happy with your newfound opportunity.

The Eruption in the Abduction

Seven days of gloom. A week of sorrow and sadness. That's how many days AlDub fans have endured without seeing much of the usual things they have been used to for the last seven weeks. No fansigns, no pabebe wave, no on-screen kiss. It was a sudden overturn of emotions totally drained from the sight of joy and love that viewers looked forward to each week. Even their 8th weeksary was not spared from the misery of being apart and not seeing each other well.

However, speculations arose when Alden was kidnapped by the same people who took Yaya Dub away. Yes, for days that there was no clue of her whereabouts, the mastermind thought of also kidnapping Alden, most likely because their emotions and faith are still intact, in a way. It was, as it seemed, that taking Alden away from his Gazebo of Memories shattered all hope he has left of reminiscing those good times with Yaya Dub. Storing him away into a rundown warehouse was not enough. He clinged to that one thing he holds dear the most: The memory of both him and Yaya, closest to his heart.

We soon discovered that the one person responsible both for Yaya's and Alden's kidnapping was none other than the jealous New Yorker, Duhrizz. Yep, she never went back to New York. She never left out of the country. For all we know, she may have been orchestrating all this criminal frenzy in the comforts of the beaches of Dakak, while sipping a cup of Starbox's Mocha Frappe for her inspiration. She hated Yaya and she loved Alden more than anything. Just like anyone else, her feelings were stirred the moment she saw Alden flashing his captivating dimple on screen. That must have triggered that motive of hate. She wanted Bae all for herself.

So to conclude, yes, she has the very motive that made the crime a reality.

What occured last Saturday, about the double van tripping, may have been inspired when Duhrizz was staying in Dakak, seeing group excursions traveling in vans. I can't think of anything else as creative and as crafty as that. Hats off to the brains behind the crime!

Anyway, I was not able to watch Eat Bulaga from start to finish, but I was able to watch the Kalyeserye right in the part when the van was fast approaching Broadway. I thought right then that I missed many parts, not until I saw the time. I was glad that I caught up exactly when I needed to.

What I saw was an explosion of revelations, emotions, and frustrations! I was actually surprised it was Duhrizz that planned the kidnapping, but I am sure that she's not alone. After all, we saw a man wearing a black leather jacket holding Yaya Dub within the week. And based from Yaya's reaction, she may be familiar with the man that she encountered in the shabby-looking room. So meaning, even though Alden's already released and Yaya was freed, the mysteries are not yet solved. There are so many things that would still occur in the serye, which may take months to transpire.

The emotion part is truly an eruption of what has been supressed and witheld for over seven days. Imagine how everything sums up with seven days of not doing their usual romantic stuff. In a word, it could be called "Consolation". A reward for all the hardships, the pain, the sorrow, and the sadness felt by the love team and the whole AlDub Nation for an entire week. And the Kalyeserye did not disappoint the anxious and excited fans.

Let me begin with Bae Alden since his blindfold was the first to be removed. As anticipated through my earlier statement, his excitement was overflowing! His face can no longer supress the anxiety he felt! He truly missed Maine for the longest time! In normal cases when you see your partner involved in a kidnapping scenario, you usually feel concern and worry of her welfare. Well, Alden did feel the concern. But what showed in his eyes were totally different. He stopped, he stared, and he enjoyed every second of the moment he saw Maine only about 2 feet away from each other; much closer and much intimate than their first meeting. It was as if time stopped for him. He did not mind Duhrizz. It was all about spending his precious seconds with the girl that swooped his heart away. They were only a space apart and it was more than enough for him to satisfy the longing and the missing he felt for her... and to think that all these happened when Yaya's still in blindfold.

And while Alden's heart is racing with the scene before his eyes, Duhrizz went to the other van and had Yaya Dub's blindfold removed. What happened next was so magical that the feelings exchanged will never be enough for metaphor to compare.

The moment Alden beheld Maine's face in full glory, he was totally stunned, lovestruck, and amazed in awe. He may have thought that she was really pretty the week before, but she was way more beautiful up close. His eyes smiled with bliss, his heart was pumping fast. The sensation he felt got him so tense that his lips dried and he can't move at will during the moment. His dreams fulfilled brought him to cloud 9 even while his consciousness is high as noon day. He was completely entranced with the fantasy of seeing a woderful sight that he forgot the crisis occurring in the midst of reality.

Maine, although was stressed at the moment, cannot help but smile at her heart's content. She saw Alden so close that she was stuterred and was completely clueless on how to react in seeing her crush staring at her so amorously. The scene was blooming with roses in the morning, with birds chirping, with sunshine gleaming, that the world felt the romantic chills non-stop. It was again a roller coaster ride of emotional euphoria! But this time, the speed, the high, and the madness was at a whole new height! Maine's eyes and lips smiled as wide and as far as it could that, if possible, it could extend all the way to the ears just to physically manifest the joy she's feeling. She quickly brushed her hair, removing the distraction that separated her world from Alden's. When their eyes were finally aligned, their breathing became heavier, their thoughts wilder, and their gaps closer.

If Alden could move, he could cover his face because of the kilig he's feeling! He can't hide his emotions anymore. He can't believe he's so close to her. It was more than a fulfillment of his wildest dreams. Maine's feeling the same. She had to do the pabebe wave just she could convey her innocent feelings of adoration. Duhrizz was kinda upset that she closed the van's door to end the exchange of genuine feelings between the two lovers.

But just when everything was over, Duhrizz had to do more, feeding the insanity of the fans that waited for this fateful day. She had Yaya and Alden put on blindfold, take them out of their vans, and have them stand beside each other. However, instead of seeing romance, the air of anxiety and concern was thick. You could see them feel each other's presence but were confused with the darkness in their world. It was a struggle for them. They want to feel each other very near. Duhrizz had to play along, and I am sure she felt the worry and the sadness.

To compensate for the pain, she had to do the unthinkable! No one expected that at a time of criminal frenzy, she had to ask for a cup of Starbox. What for? To make a fool of the victims? So Duhrizz had to give Alden the cup and sip from the straw for a drink of cold coffee. I thought at first that Duhrizz took the moment to feel his lips draw close to hers through the straw. But no! She did not do it! Oh! The humanity of it all! The whole world was screaming, shouting, and getting crazy of the cunning and crafty idea of what's to happen next.

And just when everyone's minds are catching up to reality, Duhrizz fulfilled a fantasy happening in the movies. She let Maine sip on the same straw that Alden used for the coffee. Wah! And before we knew it, Yaya just had the most peculiar indirect kiss of her lifetime. Without her knowing, she just had a piece of Alden's lips without kissing each other. Some say it's plain lame, but everyone else found it to be braintwisting! It had to end! It had to stop! Nothing lasts! Not at this moment! It's too soon and we know there would be a lot more next Saturday.

The rest was history after that. When compared to last week's episode, this one's a whole lot better! It had more stuff in it and the chill factor's in a higher level. If there's to expect, it's something that will overtake what we have witnessed... Oh boy!

What do you think? Comment below! I'd love to hear your thoughts, insights, raves, and rants.

How The Rain Got Me

Staying here in my room,
I saw the skies turn gray.
The air was full of gloom,
But my mind is at play.

I heard the thunder clap,
Nervous I was and felt troubled.
Weird but excitement had me wrapped,
This feeling makes me buffled.

Flashes of lightning, it was blinding,
Startled my fleeting thought.
The anticipation kept on growing,
My fear and my joy fought.

Alas my ears have heard music,
When drops of rain fell the roof.
Somehow both happy and nostalgic,
My feelings showed, I was moved.

I saw ripples formed in the puddle,
Made me remember mem'ries of old.
In my mind, searching in the rubble,
Thoughts of you and me unfold.

The rain dropped stronger and fiercer,
It had me a bit distracted.
But the more it fell, it became clearer,
I am missing you at that moment.

The sound seemed like an applause,
That makes the heart excited and glad.
Time traced my mind when we're close,
We finally saw each other! It was mad!

Rain trailing on the window pane,
Had tears rolling down my cheek.
Still feeling the hurt and the pain,
Losing sight of you, my heart was pricked.

Earth made clean, the scent was nice,
Mem'ry had a glimpse of one sweet day.
Roses on the floor, rain on the rise,
I offered my heart, you swept away.

The air is cold, feeling the chill,
Hands are numb, my skin is pale.
Just like the time I felt the thrill,
Seeing your smile, nothing will fail.

The rain kept on falling, it kept going,
The mind was on race, it won't seem to stop.
Need to go outside, to quench the aching,
An urge everytime, never abrupt.

Unceasing how the clouds have cried,
It stirred my soul, missing a piece.
Just like me who have always tried,
Catching your attention, begging her please.

Leaving it all, I go outside,
To feel the rain, it has been a while.
Thoughts of you, can no longer hide,
Out comes the true me, a pluviophile.

You have sunk to my being,
It's this same sensation.
Submitted myself so willing,
To those eyes of sincere affection.

The rain had me falling, the feelings remain,
But this time around, nothing is the same.
Knew God gave me you, dear Nicomaine,
Love I have found, all after the rain.

When I See You Again

It's now the 3rd day since Yaya Dub has been kidnapped and we're still clueless of her whereabouts. And it's sad to know that there are many people out there feeling that the show is already getting stale due to the events that are transpiring in the Kalyeserye. Some are saying that Eat Bulaga is now only making the show longer due to the fame and ratings they're getting. Others are already getting impatient, not liking how the show is turning out. But there is more to the story than just butterflies, sweet music, and good times. Let me share my take of today's episode and everything that goes along with it.

It is rather grievous to see that Yaya Dub is still in the clutches of the men who kidnapped her. In fact, the sight is so heavy that I felt pain in my heart, being swayed by how Yaya was able to portray the role. Imagine being kidnapped for over 3 days without an ample supply of food and water. No bathing, no people to talk to, and no technology of any form whatsoever. She has mentally prepared herself for the part she'll be playing. We all know that everything is just an act. But what I saw earlier was beyond that. You could feel the sorrow in her eyes; the anxiety of seeing Alden again, or knowing that Lola Nidora is safe. She wanted to get free. She can't do anything in her power to save herself. She's totally helpless, cold, hungry, and dirty. And how she was able to go through everything was just superb. To think that Maine haven't gone through any acting workshops yet her eyes, her tears, her body language, even her hair, clothing, and eating manners, all of them could manifest the difficulty of the situation with no screaming, no uttered words, no intense movements.

That was acting back then during Nora or Vilma's time. Back when the eyes are more than enough to express feelings of love, hate, disappointment, joy, worry, disgust, and so on. Oh and my heart almost shattered of the thought that her allergy's acting up again, making the situation even worse...

Wait... Did I just mention allergy?! From what I am recalling, the only allergy she had was when Frankie's around, when she's seeing his hole-infested face. It could be a clue, but I know not for sure.

There comes a moment in an actor's career, regardless of network, where he or she is placed in shows that serve as a measuring stick for acting skills and creativity. We need not to mention what these shows are since you will be aware of them when you see how an actor plays his or her part in such slots, usually on prime time. Commonly, these are experienced individuals who are up to the challenge of exceeding their expertise, usually stretching their comfort zones and portraying roles that exhaust all of their knowledge in acting. It's an experimentation lab of testing the results of their acting workshops and applying their wit and learning.

But to Maine's case, everything is completely different. She had no workshops, She does not even have a contract on GMA to begin with. She was grabbed by Eat Bulaga due to her popularity as the Dubsmash Queen. True that you can act on Dubsmash, yes. But acting a role where you have to give your all? Definitely not! Some take dubsmashing as a casual form of entertainment, as a time-waster. But to Maine, it's her way of expressing her true self. It's her medium of showing her versatility, not only in memorizing lines, but also controlling her emotions. Dubsmash is a craft to her, an avenue where she can show the different facets of her personality from love, to hate, to anger, to frustration, to any other feeling you could think of. She spends time looking at herself in the mirror. She takes time to rehearse the lines. She visualizes how the portrayal would occur, and how her body, her eyes, her face, her movements would go along every second of the acting. Not anyone would actually take time dubsmashing the way she's doing it. That gave her the title she deserves. It's something that we ought to think and respect.

Yes, I have thought all of these in those 30 minutes; in those moments when many of the viewers found today's episode as boring and distasteful. We need to realize that not all episodes in the shows we are seeing are positive and bright. There would be moments when actors are challenged to play dark roles and gloomy plots, all for the sake of the story and building the momentum that could give benefit to the highlight of the later episodes. It's what you call a build up that gives savor to the best moments. You may think of Yaya crying now or Alden still moping like a little kid on the corner of the wall. But what about the sweet reunion they will have after all these events? Have you not thought that there are always happy endings and that they would be together again after all the hardships and the challenges? The scene would turn out to be better and more colorful than what we saw last Saturday.

And to the rest of the cast, I would like to extend my appreciation for professionally acting your roles despite of the rants you are getting from different viewers. Theirs is an inspiration to go on and be the best that you can be. It is indeed a task to fulfill. It may consume much of your time. It may even drain you for the roles you play. But know that we appreciate every second you spend in making the show work for all your viewers, to the ones that truly love the way you play your part.

When Alden and Maine would see each other again, we will expect something grander than what we saw last Saturday. Just think of the moments they would call each other, even though they are apart. The longing is becoming real. The anxiety can't be put on hold. The pain is growing worse each day. That simple thought of seeing each other one more time will become insanity to the maddening soul. When they see each other again... the world would witness another first in history...

Silver Lining - Saving the Maiden

Yesterday's episode wasn't much of a sight to see. I was actually in pain realizing that nothing much has happened since Saturday. True much that I still felt the chills when they replayed the magical encounter over the weekend, but it also made the hurting a bit worse than the last time. It's a bit of a smack down at reality. Alden's still alone staying on the other side of the wall, feeling terrible. Yaya Dub is still in the hands of the henchmen that kidnapped her since Saturday, drained, tired, and restless. To many, the situation is nothing but bad vibes. But to the optimistic, the hopeful, and the enduring, Yaya's kidnapping could be a once in a lifetime opportunity to finally make ends meet. Curious? Here's my take on what will be the likely scenario that fans are hopeful to see.

Let me recollect the final moments last week. If you could notice, Alden and Lola Nidora was on the same scene at the same time, but their feelings were mutual to one thing in common: they both want to save Yaya Dub and make sure that she's safe. When I saw that, I thought to myself, "I think this is the time of proof, the final test". Yes, of the 51,000,498 tests remaining for "tamang panahon", this may be the one trial that can commensurate all of Lola Nidora's other plans to make Alden suffer. The very purpose of the tests were to confirm the loving feelings of Alden to Yaya; if he is willing to toil, work hard, and patiently endure every challenge that would come his way to see his devotion through. Lola, being protective of the young woman she guided for so many years, would like to have an assurance that Yaya's love will not be toyed, fooled, or taken lightly. But now that Yaya's gone, what's the purpose of all that?

I think the scenario they have now made Lola Nidora do the worst: to push aside Alden's hard work for the last two trials and finally destroy the score board. It can be a bit shocking, if not provoking, at first. If you were in Alden's shoes, you may react blatantly for throwing away your efforts. But when you step back, think a bit, and weigh matters in your head, you may now question why. Why would Lola Nidora destroy the very manifestation of Alden's love for Yaya Dub? Was is just because of rage? of frustration? of hate? Those assertions may attribute to what Lola Nidora's emotional outbursts. But what about her feelings? She's feeling helpless, she does not have Yaya near her. The many years of her life in taking care of the young girl left under her care is now hanging in the balance. What may likely happen will depend on Lola Nidora's acceptance that the only man that can help her save Yaya Dub would be Alden. She could take it as the ultimate test to end it all.

When given the chance, I am sure Alden will be up to the task. He will not only be able to see Yaya in the flesh, but more importantly, he could win Lola's heart and save the maiden in distress. There is nothing more noble, more sincere, and more loving than to put your life on the line for the one that makes your heart beat. His life and safety may be compromised, but it would not matter as long as Yaya will be saved. He would be playing the part of a knight in shining armor. He will go to the cave of the dragon and save the princess. And there would be nothing sweeter than raising his hand up high in victory. Hurrah to chivalry! I will be sure that Lola Nidora will gain the respect and the trust Alden deserves to have for being persistent, untiring, true, loyal, and loving to the woman that he holds dearly.

It takes an open mind and a positive attitude to look into negative events with a positive light. That should be one of the things we should learn being a part of this fandom. Dwelling on the bad cannot solve anything. Piercing through the darkness and seeing the light should be a kind of mindset that every person must have. We may see the clouds thicken up, threatening for the coming storm. But there's always a silver lining to the dark clouds we see beyond the horizon.

Emotional Rollercoaster

Ever since the announcement that Yaya Dub and Alden will be facing each other for the wildcard round of Bulaga Pa More, everyone in the AlDub Nation can't help but get excited of September 5. Some created stories on what will occur on the said day. Others were pessimistic that it would be another Hopia Day, that everything will pass without them seeing each other at the least. Some just extended their support to whatever will happen, knowing that it's not yet "tamang panahon".

This Saturday was totally unpredictable, knowing that Yaya Dub, Lola Nidora, and Alden promised to each other that the two lovers will never see each other inside Broadway. But as the episode went on, there were weird hints. The Rogelios did not do their usual thing of guarding Alden. Instead, they had selfies with TVJ, along with Allan. Lola Nidora just sat along with Alden after the prod number and made a promise to each other that he and Yaya will not meet. Lola was expecting that Alden would keep his word, being a man of reputation. But while Maine was performing, you could see Alden begging... Begging to see Yaya eye to eye. His morals and his emotions are fighting inside his head. His mind and his heart are having the contest of conscience against principles. The battle inside him is real. His fears of the worst also made him hesitate at first.

But Lola Nidora acted strange. Yes, very strange that the suspicion in the air was thick. Eventually, she suddenly disappeared off screen. That moment made fans wild.

It was time for Alden to do what he must do, as a man who fell inlove with the girl he had been courting with for the last 7 weeks. He had to see her. He had to confirm that what happened on split screen was real. He was very curious on how things would end up; no longer caring for what would happen afterwards. He needed to set his eyes on her and he did so badly.

Maine, I bet feels the same. She was also excited of entertaining the thought of seeing her long time crush. You could see the worry on her face when she's feeling that Alden might not be around. She was anxious and concerned... Concerned that her feelings may not be requited on that day. That she might be upset again. That frustration may ruin her day once more. But no! She chose to go around to see if she will behold the face of the man that God gave to her.

And the world was watching. Time stopped. All were tense. The scene on TV, in the homes, in offices, everywhere was a standstill. It was much wilder, much more exciting, and more emotional than any boxing, basketball, MMA, billiard match we have seen in our lifetime. It may be even more spectacular than when Muhammad Ali came for Thrilla in Manila.

Everyone was anticipating the moment when Alden and Maine's eyes will finally meet. The moment is getting closer and closer. Everyone was clinging to the hope that no hopia will occur during the chase. And when the cue "God Gave Me You" played over the soundwaves, that was the moment everyone melted in pure bliss. The moment was so precious that no painting, sculpture, or masterpiece can put into material what transpires between them. Butterflies flew, birds sang, the flowers bloomed, the stars fell from the sky. That's the nearest feelings I had with this clash of two hearts that had been constrained for over seven weeks of romance. It was an emotional rollercoaster that had everyone crying, screaming, shouting, and beating each other like crazy! It was one heck of a ride. The event was so memorable that it created history one more time, in total excess. It's almost midnight and I have to stop writing for now. But the memory of this day will remain in the hearts of millions!

The Road to Forever

Some may think that this post may be late with respect to the hashtag #AlDubJourneyToForever, but it will never be, especially when you hear my case. When I was about to create a write-up on the said HT, there was something bothering me at the time. It was like I cannot make the content  wholeheartedly because there was something lacking that I have not seen the love team encounter yet. Yes, the article was supposed to be the journey to forever, but the idea was rough since there was an element that I never saw between the two, for the last 7 weeks that they have been together on screen... Not until I've seen the episode earlier today, September 4.

When I got to see the episode today, and have seen the first love quarrel between the two, that was when the journey to forever took form. You may think that it's pessimistic of me to comprehend that the road to a lasting relationship is not perfect. Well, reality speaks for itself: there is no perfect relationship. One way or the other, couples just like Alden and Maine will have those days when arguments will arise, disputations will come along, and misunderstanding may challenge a bond created by love. But that's when a loving relationship will grow stronger: if they could face those differences against time, ideas, principles, and preferences and still manage to get along well.

Take a look at what occurred when Yaya was looking for Alden to notice her. She tried and tried, and she eventually got tired. From that simple stressful moment, feelings of hate emerged. And because of that hate, Alden was ignored with Yaya not yielding to his ingratiating. He cannot win favor for her attention. But that's when I found respect for Alden, which most men should emulate. That if their partners are not in the mood for swinging, it is better to lower your pride, plead like there's no tomorrow, and make them fall for you again. That's one of the cultures diminishing among couples these days. Men think that if their women are acting all moody and emotional, that they don't have a soft spot for kilig & courtship. In turn, some guys just quit the love game and end up upset. Now that can break a relationship. Please remember that forever does not end with never, but with happily ever after!

I have to admit, Maine's actually cute when she has all the tantrums. Bet Alden can't help but become all romantic seeing how cuddly Maine was when she's throwing out her childish side. Like who wouldn't! Seeing those droopy eyes, those pouting lips, and those movements would challenge any guy to win a girl's heart. That's how forever is created. That's how forever will last. A loving relationship can endure beyond a lifetime if memories of sweet togetherness will be created despite of the many bad weathers that will be encountered between the couple. The courtship should last when it's ought to last. Forever is not a one-day event. It's not as grand as you think it is. Forever starts with a second, then grows a minute, turns into hours, lasts for days, lives for weeks, endures for years, and it never ends in decades or centuries.

Arguments and issues should not stay too long between couples. That's what I saw between Maine and Alden yesterday. They became sweeter to each other after the love quarrel. That's how things should be in this world. I bet divorces or annulments will cease if that is the case. Anyone who have been into LQs know that listening, understanding, and tolerance will quickly dissipate the hate. That a song, a dance, a poem, a box of chocolates, or flowers can make negative feelings disappear.

The road to forever is never easy, but it's worth it, especially when you know that the person you love will be yours for keeps: locked in the recesses of your heart, never moving, never waving. Because we believe in forever when we meet that person who we'll cherish our eternity with.

7th Weeksary! Super Happy!

We have been watching week after week, after week. Regardless to say, we have seen every weeksary becoming more and more romantic than it was ever the week prior. That's how we, as fans, have seen how Alden and Yaya Dub celebrate their moments of joy. We have seen it grow from simple gifts, to toys, to food, to the flowers, and even special delivery items courtesy of the riding-in-tandem, or by Alden himself, fresh from the regions of Bicol. And because of the many exciting things Alden is preparing for his dearly beloved Yaya, we just can't help but become restless and anxious as to what he would come up next.

Well, for their 7th weeksary, there was sure no disappointment. And while everyone else is thinking, "wonder what it's gonna be", Alden's always into his thing of giving all the viewers some pleasant surprise. And yes, he surprised not just Yaya, not just Lola, but everyone in the world who thought that Alden has done everything he could to impress and make a move.

To think that he was already drastic at meeting Maine face to face, definitely not contented with their on-screen romance, Alden made a way to make sure that he could have the nearest experience he could have. Nope, it was never the pillow because it's too fluffy, too small, and too portable to say that he could replicate the kind of feeling as if Maine's near him. It was also not Minnie since it's too small and there was not much of any semblance to Maine, except for the fact that she's the Maine-nie to Alden. So, if you want to have a person at your side and feel as if she's really there, what would you do? The picture is also out of the question even though Alden kissing Maine's photo gives that kind of kilig everyone is looking for...

So what was it? What did Alden do to make this 7th weeksary super happy?

There was no special food and there were no treats, except for the chocolates that was delivered to Maine, with sweet messages on the wrapper. Nope, that was not the "Maine Event". In fact, it was actually surprising that the only thing seen was Alden wearing his white shirt. It's understandable to say that just staring at Maine made him full... I mean, who doesn't? To him, Maine was more than enough to satiate hunger. But there's something in Alden's eyes that shine with excitement. Yes, his heart was throbbing with the thought of Maine's reaction when she sees his wonderful surprise that's full of spice and everything nice.

But he was able to wait. He wanted to show the highlight of the weeksary to Lola Nidora. And mind you, his countenance was so dashing that Lola complemented Alden for looking differently handsome that day. So he showed the Lola Nidora standee and hugged it. Lola was not able to endure feeling the kilig, even when she tried not to, that she threw out her Pabebe tongue. Now you're imagining what's gonna happen next?

ADVISORY: Please prepare 5 cylinders of oxygen tanks and an ambulance.

Yes, Alden was able to show a standee of him and Yaya Dub. But that was not the climax of it all. Alden did not feel content with just a standee of him kissing Yaya so he took the standee away and hugged the standee instead. The kilig was so overflowing that I was able to feel awe for his very unique approach! Hands down Alden! You da man! Yes, I'm a man for crying out loud and I still feel the thrill of the move he made! He actually made me proud of being a man! Maine was also not able to contain the kilig! She was so happy that you could see it in her eyes and in her smile! Yes! "Hindi na actingan to oy!"

But that was not all. Alden also graced the 7-week relationship with a romantic gesture that's very well known to the French, particularly, those who reside in Paris. He furnished a heart lock for him and Yaya. He fastened both the locks in a chain, he kept Yaya's keys, and he gave his heart keys to Yaya. Very symbolic as it is that the only person who could unlock each others' hearts are one another, and none else. This day was indeed one of the best ever! Ask the AlDub nation and they'll echo the same response, that's for sure.

P.S. Sam Yg confirmed that Alden took Maine's standee home, when it was supposed to be left at the studio. Oh boy!

How AlDub is a Baeyaya

I found the HT yesterday to be tasteful in every way. AlDub is indeed a blessing to all who have seen and watched it on TV. But how are the blessings measuring up? Let's count the blessings for now and the tweets later.

1. Eat Bulaga found itself a wonderful gift for its 36th year anniversary. A gift so unique that it introduced a concept that's nowhere available on Philippine TV. As dubbed by Sir Joey de Leon, Kalyeserye is a totally different idea. Ever since the Problem Solving segment for Juan For All was hyped with Yaya Dub, and infusing it with the AlDub craze, nothing has been the same. Ratings are going off the scale that it has done the unimaginable: a noontime variety show beating massive primetime ratings! Now that's a blessing well-earned by the show considering the fact that it has been consistent through the years in making the viewers not just happy, but also making them socially, economically, and environmentally aware.

2. Jose, Wally, and Paolo are already as skilled in their craft of making people laugh with their witty but tactful manner of comedy. When everyone thought that these three are at the prime of their career, here comes a challenge for them to fulfill: to play different roles while still applying their skill. It was comedy to the next level. The AlDub love team created an environment where JoWaPao can explore their limits and creativity: the perfect sandbox for growth and experience. We have seen Doktora, Duhrizz, Nidora, Frankie, Lolo Franing, Tinidora, and Tidora grace our screens with portrayals so genuine that we can't help but laugh in wonder and amazement. We were able to see spontaneity and ad libing at its best! The AlDub phenomenon gave them a room for improvement.

3. Specifically, Wally was one of the most blessed in the booming of the AlDub craze. People saw the same glory he had in his career before the saddening incident occurred. Many say he has surpassed his old self due to his dedication and creativity in bringing Lola Nidora to life. It was a moment of retribution, a time of giving back to the show and to the people that trusted him. The chance renewed his faith, not only to God, but to himself, knowing that he is once again accepted by the same society that condemned him in the past. His achievements in comedy have conquered his inadequacies, follies, and mistakes he once had. His was a great blessing of acceptance, feeling the Atonement of the Savior has graced his life. Financial blessings have also poured in, right in time to support him and his family in a great time of need, sustaining hospital and medication bills for one of his children fighting against cancer.

4. Alden Richards has also been greatly blessed with the AlDub Nation supporting his back. He's already 1 million strong with his fans all over social media. His presence in Eat Bulaga was raised over many notches due to the created love team that swept, not just the whole nation, but the world. Tons of projects stormed his way to the point of his exhaustion, 7 days a week. He now holds the title of "Pambansang Bae", a title that he alone deserves. But of the most important blessings he received due to his professionalism at work, love for family, and devotion to God, none could deny that the best was a woman graced from heaven in the form of Nicomaine Dei Mendoza; a blessing of not only a love team, but someone who he may share his life with for good. Ever since that day their eyes met, nothing has been the same in Alden's life. He has never been more inspired, more driven, and more motivated.

5. Maine Mendoza already has everything any person could want: a loving family, financial prosperity, good education, an excellent circle of friends, and a joyous life. But there are still some things missing such as the fulfillment of her ambitions, an amazing love life, and a family of her own. Hers was different because nothing material could satisfy the missing pieces that only time and Deity could provide. But God hears the righteous desires of our hearts and He gave more than enough to make the cute little princess happy. He gave her a shot at stardom through Dubsmashing. She was able to experience a bit of acting through her role as Yaya Dub. It was all about her grouchiness at first, well, not until another blessing was given to her, pending for more than 5 years in the making. God gave her a chance for a relationship to blossom in the form of Richard Faulkerson Jr. She has been blessed with a man that may complete the essence of her existence, a person that she would share forever with; an individual who will hold her dear. And the blessings keep getting better and better with a movie debut that she will be a part with, this December. Is there anything else that she could ask for?

6. Finally, us, the fans, the people who have been captivated by the AlDub fever. Who says that we're only spectators in this whole thing? Many of us here have been blessed by this love team, one way or another. I for one was blessed to have that faith in love stories coming true. That love in this time and age is not instant, just like in the old days. It made many people realize that love founded on the principles of patience, hardwork, and virtue are worth the effort, as it is sweeter. Some gained the hope that their love stories do not end in vain. That God will provide the right person, at the right place, at the right time, at the right circumstance, as long as people are worthy of such blessings. Younger teens have learned that there is no need to rush a relationship, not until they have finished their studies with flying colors and made their parents proud. The Church regained a sense of confidence that there's a show on TV that promotes the worth of a marriage, that yielding to short and sultry pleasures are not solutions to a virtuous and precious family life. Students appreciated the value of a good education and how it can be a tool for future success.

There are so many blessings, many, many more, that the AlDub love team has given to all of us. It's up to us to realize it and be thankful.