I remembered this joke back then when I was a kid. I sparingly laughed at it because it was kinda lame but creative in a way. But the memories led me back to my youth because Maine brought me there with the use of Dilemma in a sentence.
But more than a memory, I will use these four words to create a statement that will help me seam my thoughts together about the many events that transpired recently. Nope, this isn't one of those cryptic entries I've done previously and definitely not a kilig-inducing one at that. It's time for me to make some cleaning with the mess certain fans are making, and also to answer a question that some of you readers may be wandering about.
Deduct
Deduction is a method that investigators use to generate and create a hypothesis based from the many evidences gathered, related to a case. And since this is more of making a speculation, it cannot be accepted as hard fact or truth. Please do understand AlDub Nation that many of the things you see online are based on the various information gathered from a variety of sources. Some of them are as clear as the noonday, while others are as blurred as the foggy morning. When we see some tweets that are not backed up by verified info, please, let's not get into the act of making assumptions or speculating what's really happening. Such deeds are actually unsafe for both the ones being talked about, and the ones who are spectators of the said stories.
Most of us here, I know, are talented when it comes to studying body language, reading messages between the lines, detecting facial expressions, and even creating stories. However, let us put those said talents to good use where we can share good vibrations to fellow members. I was actually moved to stand from my seat when I have seen certain individuals of the nation creating a stir against information that were merely based on deduction, personal interpretation, and misjudgment. I call upon readers to please never believe what you see not unless it comes from the source. It's like you're not aware that the food you're eating came from the morgue, just because you think that it's presented pretty authentic. Don't forget to weigh the facts then ask if the things you are reading are correct.
Defense
As many of you have read my previous posts, I am standing firm for both Alden Richards and Richard Faulkerson Jr., and of course, our princess, Maine Mendoza. But these acts of mine are not just based on mere speculation. I am immovable on my conviction of these individuals because of what I have read and understood about them for the last three months of following them online and on other sources that some AlDub fans are sharing. Yes, I am holding onto their words as dogma because I sincerely think they are honest and true people. Though I may not know them personally, I know for a surety that they are who they say they are, and nothing more.
There's a persistent problem that occurs in most fandoms that have pairs or couples. In order to not be disappointed, they would make their senses wider for every hint of information they could find. Whether it's a tweet, a snapchat, a past post, or anything else, they'll give in just so to confirm that everything would be followed as dictated by some of the fans. Please be considerate. Do not be fantards that you are, thinking that you have the power to write their destiny and decide their love story. If Alden and Maine are feeling a bit off in some instances, please, don't feed your mind with clutter from your frustrations and dreams. These two are in the stage of knowing each other better. Maine may not be as open as she is, because these things happening to her are new. It's been a while since she had her last serious relationship. Alden, of course, has Maine as his first "real" relationship for the longest time. Let's understand Alden's eagerness and Maine's pessimism. They are in the journey of togetherness; a clash of two feelings undergoing adaptation and familiarity. And you cannot instantly feel love, especially if you came from a life where everything else is different.
Maine could feel confusion from all these things. Yes, she dreamed of that "Eventually". Yup, she has a bucket list of what a man would do for her. Yes, she's looking forward for a man of chivalry to sweep off her feet. But no! Understand that daydreaming is totally different from facing reality. It's like you love the idea of bungee jumping, but the feeling is totally whack when you're standing on the edge of a bridge, seeing nothing but ground, 20 storeys high from where you are standing. Some fans are thinking that Maine's feelings are fleeting away because of Alden's actions? What? Is it because they are not really close when they're off cam? She's not as smiling when the scene's not rolling? Are we to seriously think that Maine, a young woman who uses her head, would easily deal with emotions that have long been missed in her life? Are you actually making me believe that she's starting to hate Alden or being cold because of commitments he has to meet or because his uniqueness precedes that of some playwrights, dramatists, or hopeless romantics? Slap yourself awake and know reality. Life is not what you think of. In fact, life is the irony of the things we see on TV. So, is their blurring relationship a reality? I don't think so. If there's something I could believe and affirm of such allegations, then asking both Maine and Alden about it would be the most reliable source I could have. But to actually assume things just because of created thoughts in one's head? Nope... It's a really bad dose of negative medicine, and it's not even close to what's really happening.
Despite of the uproar however, there's one who acts behind the scenes to make sure that everything ends up right, despite of his limitations as a human being. That's what I love about Alden. He's trying his best to make Maine's dreams reality, showing her that there's a reason to believe in true love. There's a reason to believe that there really is forever. There is no such thing as "too good to be true" because Alden, as imperfect and as inadequate as he is, is doing his effort to show that he's the real deal. He may sometimes fall short of certain expectations, but consider the fact that he is human, just like the rest of the AlDub Nation. He's not a make-believe character created in your scripts of romance and fantasy. He may be able to make you feel kilig with all the incomprehensible forces involved with their love story. But that does not mean he's God to actually think of what you guys are thinking. He has his own thoughts so let us not judge him for his intentions or actions. We don't know the real story, nor do we know so much about him.
And what about pairing Maine to other men because they're not content with Alden's efforts? How inconsiderate can you people be? Are you really that selfish that you don't consider Alden's feelings and efforts? That's the problem with some of us. Because we're too used to seeing flaws and mistakes of the present, we tend to forget the beauty and wonders of the past. Now that's what I call rude. You can't just take Maine away because of your silly and incontinent fan-servicing. Alden has been so into Maine these 16 weeks and all you can say is that "He's not meeting expectations so we'd rather have Maine to someone else." And worse, some are creating love teams that don't even have a clear foundation of things. It's just been less than two weeks since Tamang Panahon, and there are already issues? That's what Lola Nidora said, remember? She mentioned not to rush love and hurry it. The feelings and the bond will grow strong over time as they establish a deep foundation of friendship. A love that's true can't be fostered with a wonder fertilizer. Maine is a firm believer of that. She knows how a plant, cared for, loved, and treated well, will bloom and flourish, having the qualities of patience, hard work, persistence, and hope. So don't rush it. They will end up together when the time is right for both of them. But the time is not now, but will await for later.
There's also this other thing that I've read that if things would not work out, Maine could be better of on her own. That's just plain sad. I can't even fathom the thought of Maine being alone when it was all about AlDub that made their popularity rise. It was all about Alden? That's the reason why they're thinking that Alden's taking all the credit and Maine is deprived of all the opportunities that come in her way? There's reason to believe that this is totally unfair. To think that some are expecting for Maine and Alden could have the same projects and breaks, when their experience and stay in the industry are years apart? Do you really like the idea of crushing Maine in the early stage of her rising career? Alden would rather take the burden just so to protect her from being deprived of anything she could enjoy at this time. Think of Alden. Do you think he's enjoying the late mornings he arrive at home, beaten, and dead tired, driving on his own from a long shoot? Do you think he likes being photographed in a flight when he's quietly sleeping? Do you think that he loves the thought of missing some of life's precious events just so he could keep his commitments and fit everything in a day? No! He did not like any of that. But he's willing to sacrifice his own for the sake of family, the fans, and the people who look forward to meeting him and seeing him in his shows and events. Now if Maine, being young and frail in this business, would have the same level of demands, then I don't know if she could endure. Her family would be totally worried and things could be different. And Besides, AlDub will never be a hit if it were not for Alden and Yaya Dub.
I am, by the way, in opposition of her presence in Sunday PinaSaya. I would rather think of her health than abuse her just so fans could feel kilig seven days a week. Please let me remind you that Sunday is literally, a day of rest. Let her be. She needs to catch up. She needs sleep more than you think she has so much energy left in her delicate frame. She also needs time for family. It's the charging battery that drives her for the rest of the week. So let her be and give her the time off she deserves.
Defeat
I am actually saddened by the fact that many celebrities are now feeling the impact of the AlDub Nation, and the love team, in a very unfortunate way. Some personalities are taking the fame in a bad light, creating harsh statements and using crude language just to vent out their frustration and disappointment. A show will be closed due to low ratings. Some individuals have been bashed because of poor performance. Others where misunderstood and became victims of an angry fandom. It's the price of fame. Some will rise up and others will fall down. But how I wished that the world would be fair for them. But then, life is unfair and some would have to exert more effort so that they could have an advantage of the limelight they're supposed to cherish.
That's the war in show business. You cannot and you will not be able to please everybody. But things could have been better if all of us could be happy for each other and support each other. That pride would melt away and humility will come into existence in the hearts of each and every individual. Do you think I am happy that some would lose the livelihood they enjoyed for some time? Not at all. But what can be done? Competitors competed when there was no competition to compete with. They pushed too hard and ended up burning from their own flames. It's a sad sight. All I can say is good luck to those whose lives were changed because of the AlDub Nation in a bad way. We're not having ill feelings of hate, anger, and revenge despite of the wrong words said, demeaning statements delivered, or hateful points conveyed. Ours is but enjoyment of what we love. But your fans are filled with spite... Thus the karma that would take the toll of higher people.
Detail
At the end of my write-up, I would encourage you to see the details of what I have written. It may not be to the very point that I have stressed some of my ideas. But I encourage you to pause, think, and act according to what is fair and best for all of us. This entry may have come from a play of words, but know that I am not playing with the feelings of any member of the AlDub Nation. I, for one, am with you in supporting Maine and Alden to the fullest of my abilities, even though I have my own life to live and love. And before I close, there's one question I would like to answer before I drop my guard down.
"Why is your faith for their destiny/forever so unwavering?"
There is one word that will answer this question, which would be my foundation of steadfast faith and hope for their love story. Serendipity!
Funny as it says in Wikipedia that "The New Oxford Dictionary of English defines serendipity as the occurrence and development of events by chance in a satisfactory or beneficial way, understanding the chance as any event that takes place in the absence of any obvious project (randomly or accidentally), which is not relevant to any present need, or in which the cause is unknown.
Innovations presented as examples of serendipity have an important characteristic: they were made by individuals able to "see bridges where others saw holes" and connect events creatively, based on the perception of a significant link."
But there is no such thing as happenstance or chance, or luck. To me, I know that there is a plan, designed and created by Deity, that will happen to our lives, depending on the choices we make. If there are things that happen to us in any way, either good or evil, those are consequences of the use of our freedom to decide. It's just like a piece of a domino, affecting one decision after the other. In the point of one's life when crossroads are faced and they have choices to make, it will lead to an entirely different endpoint.
In short, I believe in their love story because as they said to each other during Tamang Panahon: God gave me you! (Ooh the chills on this last statement)
