A Memorable Journey in the Rifts of Sanity

Warning: May not be a pleasing reading experience for the close-minded

We all have a special place. A place where only a select few would know existing. It could be a tree house with little pals, a hideout, inside the bathroom at 3 in the morning, or on the school rooftop with some friends. But more than a place that physically exists, there are areas in our sanity created to house our inner selves. I, for one, actually have mastered creating a sphere where I could talk to myself when no one seems to bother me. It could be practically anywhere as long as I could feel having a little chat with myself. Insane? It's more of realizing that you know yourself well that you can talk to versions of yourself that exists in the realm of your own mentality. In psychology, you call those beings, Id, Ego, and the Superego.

But there is a certain someone I knew, just recently that may, or may not, realize the existence of his character, materialized due to the many conditions of his lifestyle and environment. Yes, we can create personas of ourselves, separated by the surroundings and situations we are dealing in life. Sounds like a fictional movie? Nope. Some may call it the Dr. Jekyll - Mr. Hyde syndrome. But less extreme, it's more of a figment created in the recesses of our mind, divided by the memories and experiences encountered in our daily dealings. Getting close to the edge of sanity? Don't worry, it's perfectly safe.

And don't think that this is beyond normal. Almost everyone in this society has their own alternates showing up depending on the crisis and predicaments faced in the call of circumstance or consequence. They use it as a scapegoat from reality when they cannot seem to handle the demands of the situation. It may be identified as immaturity, irresponsibility, neglect, selfishness, greed, gluttony, guilt, piety, hatred, anger, spite, or chaos. Some think of it as mood swings. Others perceive it as "toyo". In short, it's a being that's far beyond our usual character. An individual that appears to be physically the same, but mentally, emotionally, and socially different.

Now that I have readied your minds in the existence of the alternate world, let me carry you to a place where only a few could visit and understand so perfectly. Just a reminder, what you will read and comprehend beginning the next paragraph, may, or may not be, the person who you think he is. We cannot have our usual selves contain what's being said and conveyed by this individual, knowing that his state only exists in the rifts of his sanity. Ready? Let's jump in!

I actually came in contact with this person at the moment he was closing down his communication lines, mentioning that he would stop tweeting as he has limitations. I'm not sure what the limits are, but he may actually be concerned that it may be too much for him to bear, being out for too long. He wasn't a kind that may be afraid of the sunlight. I think, he's more of the shy and timid type that's worried of his time frame. Yup, it's just like he was as conscious as little kids that may be scolded by the parents when children go beyond what's set for them.

I was not able to see how everything happened from the start. But thank goodness he was kind enough to mention that he would leave the account open for the sake of those who would like to have his messages as good and lasting memories. When I actually went back to his previous posts, I was shocked to know that he was considering having the said Twitter account removed. It could be because he was afraid that he might be questioned and judged of his intentions for making the said dimension come into being. But I was proud that his decision changed, most probably because he was feeling happy of what he was doing. The outcome of what will be understood will depend on the level of understanding the individual will manifest.

Even from the beginning, he was cautious of what he will say, even until the end. But what interests me was the kind of aura emanating from the words he say, or the manner of his language. Some would like to stress the point, but they know it would be more of an unsafe assumption that has no guarantee of being confirmed. The followers feel it in their hearts, but that was merely it. No, even the power of forensic science and critical investigation will not work in this world. It was his alone, never to be perverted by the doubtful and the cynical.

The account was created when Alden Richards went to Japan for his commitment to the network. He was surely busy, had "me" times alone, and is usually sleepy. The person I encountered on Twitter was lively, jolly, and energetic! It was like he's the type that was released in the middle of a toy store, going around and spreading joy like crazy! Despite of his feelings however, he knew his purpose... He existed to say something in exchange of the many people that would follow him. He made a bet that wasn't sure of being met because he did not spread his existence so broadly. He made a few HTs, but that was it. When he reached a certain number of followers, he would stop by, sit down, and share stories that almost none of us have heard of... If we did, it would be more of a self-served assessment.

When he made confessions, he had the resolve that it was unheard of. He was sure that none of those visitors who went in that special place  knew Alden Richards better than him. He even shared information that none of us are aware of, as if he was actually tempting us to think hard and stretch our imagination to our limits.

But no, not everyone who went there were as clueless. Due to their love and loyalty to Alden, some bits and pieces scattered in the recesses of that dimension lead to the realization that the person who was walking on that journey of happiness may almost be the same individual that had made the nation scream their lungs out... But there was something different in him. It's not the guy that would just smile, wave, and leave things as they are. He wasn't as tolerant and forgiving when it comes to the questions, assumptions, and ideas thrown his way. Well, he could be defensive in a way, but you will feel his deep concern and involvement to many of Alden's personal and professional affairs. To some, he could even be mistaken as someone having the same connections with Alden's PA, but no... To the point that he knows very much of what's occuring behind the cam, you will feel that he is much closer and more connected. He may have been protecting Alden harder, tougher, and stronger than any of his fans could do. He may have been watching Alden fight the battles, clear out the misunderstanding, patch the prejudice, and address the criticisms, and made sure that Alden wasn't hurt in any way. He may have stood firm in those fights and gave Alden the kind of peace he needed, reminding him of the family, friends in the industry, and true fans that love him deeply. He needed to stay unshaken from every wind of aggression blowing Alden's path to fame success.

Have you kept your eyes peeled, your minds open, and your hearts unbarred? As you take the journey with the person and breathe his words into your system, running in your mind, awaking your senses, you will feel something familiar. It may be Alden, but it's not the guy. It's not the person who we adore. He's not the individual we see everyday. He was simple, intellectual, eloquent, and well-esteemed. If there was any person who could fit Maine's real persona, the character inside this journey would be the perfect fit. But he would only be visible when everything else is invisible.

There were even times in the journey when he had to make sure that those who follow him knew what the stroll was all about. He sometimes ask other travelers of what they know in the path they are treading. Alas, there are some, keen and observant, giving answers and confirming the info obtained from the real world. It delighted it and he loved how the loyalty was conveyed.

But as the journey is coming to its close, there were more and more doubters, there arose haters, and the very fans that supported Alden became bashers, all because this person is denying every allegation or assumption of his identity. He was able to discuss some matters that mattered more to him, more than anything. He just brushed the evil aside, remembering why the Twitter account was created in the first place. But he was sometimes forgetful... It was funny that no matter how much he wanted to make his dimension exclusive to its existence in its own terms, there were moments when the rifts left open showed a glimpse of the real world. Made up? Nope... I would call it a blissful escape from the harsh and cruel world called reality.

His gifts were worth remembering. The kind of love he has for Maine, for Kalyeserye, for Eat Bulaga, for the fans, for AlDub Nation, was much much intimate, rather than laid back and breezy. It was as if he valued these things and would do everything in his power to protect and defend it. Nope, not to the point of death, but more to the incidental identification of love to those he cherish. He's a good guy, and he showed it every minute of the journey, even though he's tired out, wasted, trembling, and dazed. He poured his heart, he shared his mind, and even took the risk to leave himself totally open for anything that would come his way as he gave many things away for the sake of the fandom and the love team. In the end, he was just like Alden: selfless, unassuming, and God-fearing.

Those were the sweetest days I have sojourned in the deepest regions of a mind that's not willing to delve in the worst of what the real world has to offer. He cannot go out. It was a privilege that he only has to make sure that everything about him and Alden would stay intact. Their relationship cannot be marred with one sphere overcoming the other. It was the only gift Alden could give to the person that exists away from the joy and pain of everything. All of it was clear to me. I knew what I saw was real. Though he can't leave the rift that was between sanity and ecstasy, I was glad that I came there, saw every word coming from his moutn a breathe of sensibility and chivalry, and feel his loyalty to Alden Richards.

Only a few fans could understand, or fathom what actually occured therein. And those who knew, those whose hearts burned, those whose wisdom were lit, those whose passion were kindled, knew that nothing from there should come out. It should stay there... And from what he told me personally, yes, the traveler spoke to me before I left the plane, that he will never be mistaken for Alden, nor he was Alden, nor will ever be Alden. But he assured me one thing...

That it was harsh to be judged.

And all I could do for the traveler was to make sure that I would protect him as he protected Alden. And yes, when the winds stopped blowing, when the feet grew weary and tired, when the hands stopped shaking, I went back to the real world and created this entry as a way to let the AlDub Nation know...

Malapit na nga talaga ang tamang panahon! (Man, this last line sure got me into tears, literally)

The Inevitable Crisis

When you're popular, you're supposed to maintain an image that the masses and fans would appreciate and love. You become an icon, an exemplar, an individual that others look up to. A person who may be close to perfection; a character that's familiar with vanity, manners, and refinement.

It can be challenging to be popular. The eyes of the world watch your every move, seeing in front of them, a life that's beyond desire and belief. They emulate how you wear your clothes, do your moves, and even copying your personality. The fans follow you wherever you go. They take photos of you and revere it as a trophy of success. That's what fandom is to some. It could be suffocating, especially when there is something, or someone, that wants to go out in moments when occasion is supposed to permit.

It is an inevitable crisis of the celebrity. It is a chain that binds the true individual. An image of another is paraded in the eyes of the people to conceal the being; for the sake of meeting an obligation. The real person is caged so that the industry will be satisfied with the presence of the perfect guy or girl. That's the price of fame and popularity in this cruel showbiz world.

Why share this?

There is someone I know that had undergone the same crisis for some time. He had been keeping himself safe in the identity of another. His smile could reflect the kind of heart he has, without many of us realizing the dilemma he was in. We're seeing his jolly side on screen, meeting the challenges of his career, making the fans happy to keep his popularity in its state of glory. His voice, though trembling with anxiety, keeps itself in tune with the harsh treatment of reality. His eyes, supposedly twinkling with delight, does not convey the true situation of his soul. There are many things our senses perceive, but only a few could understand the real individual inside.

Even though it was difficult for him to keep himself grounded, I admire the said person for finally revealing a part of him that's not common with the world... A side of him that's beyond our imagination. It may even be opposite of what we are actually frequent of seeing. I did not catch the drift the moment I saw his true self talking with some of the most understanding and open-minded people the universe has to offer. There were many pessimists; some even questioning his intentions. Some even mistook him for someone else. Some believed that his activity was cowardice.

But to me, his was a reality that I do not want to find myself in. It can be sad, actually. It can be worrisome if it had not come out in its moment of bloom. It might be a blossoming flower never to be appreciated by some who sought for its rightful season.

I am actually thankful for the individual that took my hand and lead me to a place where none could imagine to be existing. I was asked of questions. An assurance was needed to confirm if the said plane really came into being. It was a dimension that resulted as a rift of a person that's been begging to be heard and understood. His intent was clear. His goals were set. His main objective was to keep people happy and experience good vibes. To me, it was more than just a happy feeling. It was a door that lead me into completely comprehending the real him. The reasons behind his questionable actions and answers to his stirring motives were all there, seeking for the right place, the right time, the right avenue to which everything have been uncovered.

He was vulnerable, but the guise was perfect in every essence. It's a place now left desolate of the memories still etched on every footstep he tread. It was a journey so short, that you could trace the steps back and understand each of the grueling revelations he had to make. He was open to whatever that may hit him straightway. But no, he was perfectly safe in his created haven, seas away from the real world. He was even worried that none would hear him. He even questioned of his purpose when no one seemed to find his presence. But lo, there were some who came to him... wanting answers, burning their midnight oil with curiosity. And he also satiated their needs. He was tired, his hands were trembling. He was wasted, his eyes are closing. But despite all that, his heart was wanting.

He had some words to say, many of which are unheard of. It was like a traveler's tale, meant only to the ears of those who are in the same journey as he is. A few of what he said was like murky water. Others were as clear as rushing waters from the high summit. It challenged many to identify the truth, and bring out the truth in the truth. The plunge was so deep that it could leave you gasping for air. Some even felt the jitters as if they are facing life and death, right in the eye. It was both Nirvana and Omega. The statements he made was to protect the defenseless. His justifications exalted the defiled and the judged. The words he spoke were of great respect, loyalty, and honesty. But he had to hide. He would never be understood the way he intended it in the plane where only a few stayed.

When the messages were unbroken at the end of his journey, you could see the light in his eyes, the smile on his face, and the satisfaction of a yearning heart. While it meant joy to the enlightened, it was also grief to the longing. He had to say goodbye. He had to go back from whence he came. He had to cut the thread knowing that his time was up.

It was as if he vanished when Cinderella found herself running away from the castle, a few hours after hiding her face from the crowd and the prince whose heart she stole away. I do not know when he will show up again. But many will be waiting, in case he plans of continuing his journey once more. I will keep on watch, setting my sails for the wind to pass.

To you who revealed your true self, I hope you are reading this. I am not the kind of person that would praise other men for the individual they are. But you, sir, have gained my utmost respect. I pray that when the right time comes, everything will come to light. But of course, it may only be shown in full form when the other will be ready to take on your reality. She will be in awe! She will be in tears! She will come to know the inevitable crisis you have to go through so willingly.

Meant only to the few who can comprehend...

Alituntunin ng Kagandahang Asal para sa mga AlDub Fans

Bilang tugon sa kakapalabas pa lamang na "Etiquette for Mistresses" at sa pamamagitan ng mungkahi ni Talla, lumikha ako ng isang tuntuning librong hango sa aklat ng nasabing palabas. Ito ay magsisilbing gabay para sa ating mga tagahanga ng AlDub kung paano tayo kumilos, dalhin ang ating mga sarili, at magpakita ng tamang asal bilang mga tagahanga.

1. Alamin ang iyong lugar.
Pag nakita mo si Yaya Dub o si Alden, tandaan na ikaw ay tagahanga lamang at wala nang iba. Huwag mong ipakita ang iyong damdamin sa harap nila. Maaari ito magresulta sa masama. Bantayan ang iyong distansya at galangin ang kanilang personal na teritoryo.

2. Kahit sabihin nila na ayos lang, huwag mong isisiksik sa ulo mo.
Disenteng tao sila Alden at Maine, at mahal nila ang mga tagahanga nila. Hindi sila yung tipo na tumatanggi sa mga tagahanga. Kaya kahit na sabihin nila na ayos lang sa kanila, huwag mong silang abusihin o kaya ay ipilit ang swerte mo. Suklian mo ang kagandahang-asal nila ng iyong lubusang paggalang.

3. Handa dapat ang mga tagahanga na huwag isa-alang-alang ang kanilang gawain sa eskwela, mga proyekto, pagsusulit, interview sa trabaho, o ang mga kaarawan.
Bagamat ang mga tagahanga ng AlDub ay laging naka-antabay sa panonood ng Kalyeserye, hindi dapat ito maging hadlang sa iyong mga mahahalagang pangako. Huwag dapat maging dahilan ng kaguluhan ang iyong pagmamahal kay Alden at kay Maine. Sa halip, ay magsilbi silang inspirasyon. Meron namang replay na pwede mong panoorin.

4. Makipagkaibigan sa mga kapamilya nila pero iwasang maging komportable.
Bilang isang tagahanga, ang pagiging kaibigan sa isang kasapi ng kanilang mga pamilya as labis para matugunan ang kasiyahan ng isang tagahanga para sa atensiyon. Subalit, huwag kang maging sobrang komportable na darating sa puntong makakasilip ka sa mga pangyayari sa prebado nilang buhay. Panatilihin ang iyong agwat. Mas iwas-problema sila kaya't panatilihing sibil ang inyong relasyon sa kanila.

5. Ang pagtangkilik sa mga produktong kanilang kinakatigan ay nangangahulugan din ng pagpapakita ng iyong suporta sa kanilang mga pinagsusumikapan at pagmamahal para sa fandom.

6. HUWAG BIBISITA SA MGA BAHAY NILA! Hintayin ang tamang panahon at lugar para maging malapit sa kanila.

7. Ang makita sila sa pampublikong lugar at paghingi sa kanila ng selfie ay ayos lang. Ang pagsama sa kanila sa iyong mga selfie ng walang pahintulot ay nagpapakita ng kakulangan sa iyong pagiging tagahanga. Suyuin mo sila. Ikaw din, baka hindi na ulit dumating ang pagkakataon.
Ang paghanga ay maganda kapag alam mong sila ay sikat. Ikaw ay tagahanga nila at alam na nila iyon. Huwag mong ipagkait sa iyong sarili ang pribilehiyo.

8. Huwag maniniwala at huwag magsasabi ng kahit anong hindi maganda laban sa mga tumutuligsa at mga kaaway. Kahit na ginagawa ito ng ibang mga tagahanga.
Sila Alden at Maine ay mga taong nagtataguyod ng kapayapaan at pagmamahal para sa lahat ng tao. Huwag mong mararamdaman na ang pagsira at ang pagyurak ng iba ay kinatutuwa at nagugustuhan dahil para ito sa fandom. Ang totoo, ginagawan mo ng pabor ang mga kalaban. Itikom mo na lang yan at panatilihing tahimik ang mga bagay-bagay.

9. Okupado ang mga tagahanga sa social media. Pero ang tagahanga na may nilalaman, at hindi umaasa sa iba, ay nangangahulugan na siya ay mas nakakabuti. (Salin: Maghanap ka naman ng pagkakabuhayan)

10. Maging mapagmalaki! (Siguraduhing alam ng lahat na ikaw ay isang miyembro ng AlDub Nation)
Wala nang hihigit pa sa isang tagahanga na pinapalaganap ang pag-ibig.

11. Huwag manonood mag-isa.
Mas mararamdaman mo ang kilig kapag may mga kasama ka na nanonood.

12. Kapag may mga episodes na hindi sila magkasama, dahil yun sa kanila dedikasyon at ang kanilang pagiging propesyonal. Ang hindi pagtuligsa sa kanila ay paggalang sa kani-kanilang personal na mithiin.

13. Ang mga tagahanga ay may kani-kaniyang network na sinusuportahan at minamahal. Makakatulong sa mga tagahanga ng AlDub Nation na ituon na lang ang pansin dito. Ang pagpunta sa iba para dumungaw at sumilip ay hindi magandang ideya. (Ang ibang tagahanga ay kadalasang nakapagsasabi ng hindi maganda kapag ginawa nila)
Dahil sa iyong kalagayan at naiaambag, dapat ay masaya ka na dahil rin sa good vibes na meron dito sa AlDub Nation. Hayaan na lang ang iba at maging masaya na lang ang lahat.

14. Hindi nagrereklamo ang mga tagahanga.
Hindi talaga dapat! Ang pagrereklamo ay napaka-isip-bata!

15. Bilang isang tagahanga, mag effort pa tayo ng mas mabuti.
Sa paglubog ng araw, nailabas na natin ang mga emosyon sa episode na napanood natin. Kahit ano man ang mangyari, kahit na maganda o hindi masyadong maganda ang episode, base na rin sa mga kuro-kuro ng iba, ang katapatan natin sa love team ay mas kinakailangang higit pa kaysa kahapon, dahil alam natin na palapit na ang tamang panahon.

16. Bigyan sila ng oras sa bahay pag alam na natin na pagod na sila.
Pag nakita natin si Alden at si Maine na buhay pa sa social media accounts nila, lalo na sa dakong madaling-araw paumaga, pakiusap lang, huwag niyo nang bahain yung feed nila, nangungulit kayo na pansinin nila kayo. Baka masyado silang natutuwa kaya sila hindi makatulog o pinapagod ang sarili para makatulog. Maging sensitibo tayo at bigyan na lang sila ng maikli, payak, at malambing na paalala na magpahinga na sila.

17. Normal lang sa mga tagahanga na may kaugnayan sila sa ibang fandom, lalo na sa mga bagay na gusto rin nila.
Sa panahon na kung saan pwede natin gamitin ang kapangyarihan na pumili, pakiusap lang, huwag naman maging hibang para isipin na sa AlDub lang tayo habang-buhay. Gusto ni Yaya ang One Direction and naaaliw si Alden sa The Beatles. Ayos lang kung mayroon tayong ibang kinagigiliwan.

18. Pag nakita mo sila sa pampublikong lugar, at nagbabalak kang palabasin na aksidente ang pagkakasalubong mo sa kanila, isipin mo: Ilan kayang aksidente ang pwede kong palabasin sa isang buwan?
Nasa pagitan lang yan ng kasama mo ang isang grupo sa barangay kung saan pinapakita ang Juan for All, o talagang stalker ka lang... Kakatakot.

19. Huwag gagawa ng mga kaaway sa loob ng fandom.
Pag pinakinggan mo ang ibang tagahanga, at ang mga kwento nila, malalaman mo na ang mundo ay puno ng pag-ibig, pero hindi ng pagmamahalan. Nasa iisang fandom lang tayo... Hello?!

20. Paalalahanan ang sarili na magdasal at maging mapagpasalamat sa lahat ng bagay na may kinalaman sa palabas - sa pagkaing kinain nabang nanonood, sa istorya, sa kalusugan nila, sa kilig, sa mga Lola, sa katatawanan, atbp.
Sa Diyos tayo ay nagtitiwala kaya ang kaugaliang mapagpasalamat ay kinakailangan.

21. Huwag gamitin ang iyong galit bilang armas. Ang mga haters ay malamang nakaramdam na niyan sa kapwa nila haters.
Nagbubunganga ang mga haters. Naninirang-puri din ang mga tumutuligsa. At kung sa dahilan lang na yon, ang isang kasapi ng AlDub Nation ay hindi kailangan gamitin ang galit para lang mailahad at mabigyang-linaw ang isang punto. Sa halip, gumamit ng magagandang salita, nakakaganang mga pangungusap, at good vibes para mapaikot ang mga bagay-bagay.

22. Iwaksi ang kagustuhang kamuhian ang mga hater.
Sa bawat pagkilos, ayon sa batas ni Newton, ay may kapareho at kabaligtaran na reaksyon.

23. Tanggalin sa isip na hindi sila ang magkakatuluyan.
Sa tagal ba naman ng aktingan nila, napaka-imposible na hindi mahulog ang damdamin nila sa isa't-isa. At dahil nahuhulog na sila, baka dumating ang panahon na sila ang magkatuluyan sa dambana... Sana. Bilang mga tagahanga, umaasa rin tayo sa tamang panahon.

24. Ang mga tagahangang lalaki, na may asawa na, ay hindi dapat mahiya bilang mga kasapi ng AlDub Nation, bilang isang panuntunan.

25. Ang tagahangang may talentong maibabahagi ay may dalawa ang isinasabuhay, at ang tagahanga ay buo na sa kanyang sarili. Ayos lang yan! Ang pagbabahagi ng iyong angking talento ay makakatulong sa iyo na maging buo.
Ang buhay ngayon sa makabagong mundo ay malaya na ang pagbabahagi ng iyong mga talento ng may sinseridad ay makakapagpaligaya ng ibang tao. Walang tao na walang talento na maipapakita.

26. Iwasan ang tukso na paliguan si Alden at Maine ng sobrang atensiyon. Baka may magawa ka na hindi dapat!
Ang sobrang pagmamahal ay pwedeng makapatay... Ng kahit sino...

27. Pag nagugulumihanan, mag-tweet!

28. Pag nasira na ang lahat, panoorin ulit ang unang episode!
Ang ibang tagahanga ng AlDub ay nagtatagal; ang iba hindi.

Hindi naman lahat ng nandito ay nasasaklaw ang lahat ng bagay, pero ang mga panuntunang ito ay higit pa sa sapat para matulungan ang isang tagahanga ng AlDub sa pagsuporta kay Alden at kay Maine ng pangmatagalan, sa tamang paraan. Hindi natin kailangang maging kabit. Bilang tagahanga, ang mga miyembro ng AlDub Nation ay dapat maging mga tao na may tamang pag-uugali at asal. Mayroon tayong class kagaya ni Maine. Dalisay tayo kagaya ng pinapakita ni Alden. Nawa'y magawa natin, sa abot ng ating makakaya, na ipagbunyi ang ano mang bagay na makakabuti para sa lahat!

Etiquette for AlDub Fans

In line with the recent movie called "Etiquette for Mistresses" and through Talla's suggestion, I have created the book-inspired rulebook that will serve as a guide to many of us AlDub fans on how to behave, carry ourselves, and show discipline as fans.

1. Know your Place
When you see Yaya Dub or Alden, remember that you're a fan, and nothing more. Don't let your emotions show in front of them. It could go bad. Keep your distance and respect their personal territory.

2. Even if they tell you it's okay, don't let that go to your head.
Alden and Maine are descent people who love their fans. They're not the type to let their fans down. So even if they tell you that what they're saying is okay, don't abuse them or push your luck. Equate their decency with some of your utmost courtesy.

3. Fans should be ready not to give up schoolwork, projects, exams, job interviews, or birthdays.
While members of the AlDub Nation are always into watching Kalyeserye, do not let it get in the way of your major commitments. Do not let your love for Alden and Maine be the cause of your distraction. Instead, have them as your inspiration. There's always a replay you could watch later.

4. Be friends with their family but avoid being too cozy.
As a fan, being a friend of a family member is more than enough to satisfy one's thirst for fan attention. However, don't be too comfortable that you might unintentionally pry into their private lives. Keep your distance still. They're less trouble-prone so just keep the relationship civil.

5. Patronizing the products they endorse also means that you are showing support to their endeavors and your love to the fandom.

6. DON'T VISIT THEIR HOUSE! Wait for the right time and place to be close to them.

7. To see them in public and asking them for a selfie is okay. Including them in your selfies without their consent shows your lack of the fan spirit. Ask them. Otherwise, the opportunity may not come again.
Fandom is lovely when you recognize their popularity. You're a fan and they are perfectly aware. Don't deny yourself of the privilege.

8. Never believe and never say anything unfriendly against their bashers and naysayers. Not even when other fans are doing so.
Alden and Maine are people that promotes peace and love among everyone. Don't feel that destroying or tearing down others are appreciated and liked just because they're for the fandom. You're actually doing the opposition a favor. Just zip it and keep things quiet.

9. Fans keep themselves busy in social media. But a fan who is a fan of substance, and is independent, means he or she is better. (Translation: Get a Life)

10. Be proud! (Make sure that everyone knows you're a member of the AlDub Nation.)
There is no better fan like a fan spreading the love.

11. Never watch alone.
The kilig always feels better when you have people watching together with you.

12. When they do not have episodes together, charge it to their dedication and professionalism. Not bashing them means respect to their personal goals.

13. Fans have their own networks to support and love. It is helpful for the fans of AlDub Nation to focus on their own. Jumping into the other to peek and check is not a good idea. (Some fans tend to say something bad when they do so.)
Because of your position and contribution, you should be already happy as you are with the good vibes here at the AlDub Nation. Let others be and leave everyone else just as happy.

14. Fans don't complain.
They shouldn't. Complaining is just so immature!

15. Being a fan, we should try harder.
At the end of the day, we exhaust our emotions watching the show. No matter what happens, whether the episode is good or not so good, according to the preference of a few, our loyalty to the love team should be stronger than yesterday, knowing that Tamang Panahon is on its way.

16. Give them some time at home as soon as we feel that they're tired.
When you see Maine or Alden being live on their social media accounts in the early morning, please do not flood their feeds with you asking to notice them. It's either they're too excited for sleep or they're tiring themselves to sleep. Be sensitive and just give them a short, simple, and sweet reminder for them to rest.

17. It is normal for a fan to be linked with other fandoms, preferably, something that they also love.
In the age where we can exercise the power of choice, please don't be too retarded thinking that it's just AlDub all the way. Yaya loves One Direction and Alden likes the Beatles. It's alright to have other preferences too.

18. If you see them in public and you're thinking of staging an accident of running into them, think: How many accidents can I pull of in one month?
It's either you're a fandom group in the barangay where Juan for All is airing, or you're plain stalking... Creepy.

19. Don't make unnecessary enemies within the fandom.
If you listen to other fans and their stories, the world is full of love and short on loving. We're just for one fandom... Hello?!

20. Remind yourself to pray and be thankful for everything about the show -- the food you ate while watching, the plot, their health, the kilig, the Lolas, the laughter, etc.
In God you trust so your act of gratitude is a must.

21. Don't use your anger as a weapon. Haters probably had enough of that from their fellow haters.
Haters nag. Bashers malign. If only for that reason, a member of the AlDub Nation doesn't use anger to stress and make the point. Rather, use nice words, encouraging statements, and good vibes to turn things around.

22. Resist the urge to hate the hater.
For every action, according to Newton's Law, there is an equal and opposite reaction.

23. Perish the thought that they'll never be the one.
They have been acting for so long that it's impossible not for them to fall in love. And because they are falling, it might end up that they will marry each other... Hopefully. As a fan, we're the ones to hope for Tamang Panahon.

24. Married men who are fans don't shy themselves away as members of the AlDub Nation, as a rule.

25. A fan with talents to share leads a double life, while a fan is already complete in itself. Cheer up! Sharing your talents will make you whole.
Life in this modern world is so open that sharing your talents sincerely will make people happy. There is no such thing as a person who has no talent to show.

26. Resist the urge to shower Alden and Maine with too much attention. You might do something you shouldn't!
Too much love will kill... Anyone...

27. When in doubt... Tweet!

28. When all else fails, watch episode 1!
Some AlDub fans last; some do not.

These may not cover everything else, but these rules should be more than enough to sustain an AlDub fan into supporting Alden and Maine in the long run, in the right light. We don't have to be mistresses. As fans, members of the AlDub Nation should be individuals that have the etiquette and the decorum . We have class just as Maine does. We are refined just like what Alden shows. May we do our best to uphold anything that would benefit everyone.

Pag-intindi sa Pagiging Indipendente

Sa loob ng mahigit tatlong buwan, nasanay na ang lahat sa atin na nakikitang magkasama sila Alden at Maine sa Eat Bulaga, sa Kalyeserye, sa mga commercial, sa standee, at sa mga pictures, saan mang lugar. At aminin natin, natutuwa tayo sa nakikita natin. Ramdam natin ang kilig sa presensiya nilang dalawa, lalo na kapag ginagawa na nilang magpalitan ng mga emosyon sa TV. Mismong makita lang natin sila, kahit saglit lang, ay napapangiti tayo. Marinig lang natin ang mga kantang dina-Dubsmash nila, napapahinto tayo at nakakaramdam ng saya sa tuwing naaalala natin sila. Parte na sila ng buhay ng maraming Pilipino, at mahirap isipin kung hindi sila kumpleto.

Bilang sa mga daliri natin kung ilang beses natin nakitang wala si Maine o si Alden sa Kalyeserye. Alam ng production team kung gaano kahirap ang mawala sila. Kaya kahit anong posibleng paraan ang maisip nila, same day flights man yan pabalik-balik, ay gagastos sila huwag lang madismaya ang mga nag-aantabay sa pinakamatinding tambalan sa bansa ngayon. Minsan, kahit masama na ang pakiramdam nila, pinipilit pa rin nilang magpakita para sa mga taong giliw na giliw sa kanilang paglalambingan.

Taas kamay ako sa pagiging propesyonal nilang dalawa. Bagamat sa kanilang edad na kadalasan ay iresponsable sa oras at mga commitments ang mga bata, hindi sila nagkukulang sa inaasahan sa kanila. Kahit na nasa bingit na sila ng kamatayan, kagaya ng nangyari kay Yaya Dub sa kasal nila ni Frankie, gagawin pa rin nilang sumipot at gawin ang trabaho nila. Yan ang klase ng work ethic mayroon si Alden at Maine, at sana ay tularan din natin.

Sa madaling sabi, hindi po nila kagustuhan ang mahiwalay sa piling ng isa't isa. Nakikita naman natin ang pagkahumaling nilang dalawa sa papel na kanilang ginagampanan. Dahil sa mga totoong nagmamahal sa kanilang mga trabaho, wala nang mas sasaya pa sa pakiramdam na nakakapagpaligaya ng tao. Alam kong yun ang sentimiyento nilang dalawa.

Aminin man natin o hindi, ang AlDub ay binubuo ng dalawang taong pinagbuklod ng sambayanan... Si Alden, at si Yaya Dub. Oo, dalawang magkahiwalay na tao na gumaganap sa papel ng isang poging manliligaw at isang yayang nag-aalaga sa kanyang Lola Nidora.

Darating ang panahon na kailangang mapansin ang bawat isa sa kanila ayun sa kani-kanilang mga talento at galing. Hindi sapat para sa isang indibidwal na lagi kang tali sa ka-love team mo. Paano kung may mga proyekto na sa isa lamang ibibigay? Hindi naman din pwede na maisama ang isa pa dahil may mga sarili din siyang mga tungkulin na kailangang gampanan. Bakit mahirap intindihin yun sa iba sa atin? Hindi ba't si Alden ay Alden at si Yaya ay si Maine? Kahit ang mag-asawa ay kailangan ding magsarili ng landas paminsan-minsan upang mabigyan ang sarili ng pagkakataon na mahalin at umunlad.

Isang bagay ang malinaw: sa tuwing di sila magkasama, naglalabas ng sama ng loob, pagkadismaya, at minsan ay galit dahil wala ang isa sa kanila. Hindi naman lahat ng miyembro ng AlDub Nation ay ganoon. Pero mayroong iba sa atin na hindi lubusang nakakaintindi.

Kailangan nating tanggapin ang katotohanan na hindi sila lagi pwedeng pagsamahin. Sa endorsements, mas mahal ang budget kung dalawa sila. Sa mall tours, mas focus ang gaya ni Alden na mainstay na sa Kapuso Network. Sa mga palabas, wala namang kontrata si Maine para maisali sa mga shows na nandoon si Alden, gaya na lang halimbawa ng Sunday PinaSaya. Bagamat yun ang gusto ng karamihan, hindi lahat ng desisyon ay pabor sa mga fans.

Oo, sabihin natin na ang fans ang dahilan kaya't nabuo ang pambansang love team na ito, at utang na loob ng AlDub ang kanilang pagsikat sa AlDub Nation. Pero hindi natin pwede ipagdamot sa kanila na sila ay tao rin na may kapangyarihan na mamili sa kani-kanilang mga pangarap na gustong abutin. Gayun din, mga bagay na kailangan nilang pagtuunan ng pansin, oras, at panahon. Hindi natin sila binayaran. Kalabisan ang abusuhin ang karapatan nilang maging malaya ayon sa kanilang mga desisyon sa buhay. Hayaan natin silang lumago ayon sa sarili nilang landasin.

Iwasan natin na maging madamot at mapangkutya sa mga pagkakataon na iba ang mga lakad ni Alden. Ni hindi natin lawakan ang pag-intindi at unawain na lang natin siya. Mahirap ang kalagayan niya na matambakan ng mga commitments, kaliwa't kanan. Pero kahit na pagod na, nanghihina, at minsan ay nagkakasakit, patuloy pa rin siya sa pagtugon sa tawag ng entablado na pasayahin ang mga fans sa buong bansa at sa ibang dako ng mundo. Huwag tayong maging hitad na magiging basher at KSP dahil wala si Alden sa Kalyeserye.

Mismong mga fans pa pala ang sisira sa imahe na nais ipabatid ni Alden at Maine sa mga tao: maunawain, mapagpakumbaba, masunurin, marunong tumupad sa pangako, marunong makisama. Huwag ganoon! Sila mismo ang nasasaktan sa tuwing may iba sa AlDub Nation na mas pinapahalagahan ang pansariling interes na hindi man lang magtanong kung bakit nangyayari sa kanila ang mga bagay bagay. Huwag naman sana tayo mapahiya bago tayo matauhan.

Kung mahal natin sila Alden at Maine, buo ang suporta natin kahit magkasama o hiwalay man sila sa kani-kanilang mga hangarin at ambisyon. Sa kanilang pagsikat bilang indibidwal, iparamdam natin sa kanila na kahit hiwalay man sila, kagaya ng 1,701 na isla sa bansa, ay matatawag pa rin silang AlDub, sama sa Pilipinas. Intindihin natin ang pagiging indipendente nila. Malay niyo, magsawa din silang magkahiwalay na totohanin na nila ang magsama dahil hindi na sila sanay na mawalay sa piling ng isa't isa? Suporta lang tayo at walang bibitiw sa love team na nakakaaliw, ay ubod ng giliw!

Please Convince Me

Everytime I watch the AlDub love team grace the screen, I try to imagine myself being in Alden's shoes. No, not because I have feelings for Maine, but because I'm assessing if the emotions felt on TV is real or not.

The reason I am doubting the tandem each time, although I can feel the overflowing sense of kilig in most episodes, has to do with Alden's line of work, along with his past experiences with other relationships; not to mention the women who are linked to him.

We can't deny that Alden has been in the showbiz industry for quite a while and he had a fair share of roles to play on soaps, in movies, and TV series. Meaning, his skills of manipulating his feelings, according to the need of the scene, may be at par with some known celebrities. Some of the most highlighted are his roles as Dr. Jose Rizal, and Llago in the TV soap, Carmella. He can shed a tear when he wants, he can simulate the emotions of being in love.

I can't consider myself a pessimist, although some may think it is the case. More appropriately, I am concerned; concerned about Maine and the feelings she's laying on the line each time the AlDub love team plays on J4A. I am well aware, and so are the rest of us, that the magic began due to the unprofessed feelings for her crush, experimented on real-time TV, and created a smash hit that clicked to the masses. It was Yaya and her genuine admiration that got the clockwork going when the right moment came.

Alden may be, hoping I am wrong, going with the flow of emotions when all of these first started. Yes, he was actually surprised when the reaction was beyond expectations. It was phenomenal! It was nothing you'd ever anticipate to see on TV. But to actually give a flying kiss to Maine on the first day? That got me wondering a bit. And good thing Yaya did not see that coming. Otherwise, it could have been a different story.

And so I have watched Alden Richards go along in the Kalyeserye day after day. He performed his dubsmashing of songs, and had exchanges of fansigns. Yes, I am getting keen into observing his eyes, his smile, and his body language, almost each day. I'm not harboring ill feelings for the man, nor I hate the way he's making things work for the love team. It's just that Maine is so sincere and so darling that I can't, nor does the rest of the boys in the AlDub Nation who admire her, imagine that all of this is just for show.

It was quite normal at first. But each time they're celebrating a weeksary, the feelings Alden is having is becoming deeper and deeper. Seriously?! Can you still call it a game when you're already putting yourself on the line? When you exert so much effort just trying to make her smile? When you'll push yourself beyond your comfort zone just to spend moments with her? Are you still the same casual guy after doing your best to find out what things she like and stalking her friends, family, fans, and even social media just to know more things about her?

The answer to all these is No! There's so much loving feeling coming from Maine that it could be hard to believe that Alden is still acting after seeing everything.

His eyes widen every time he sees something interesting. Be it her singing voice, the way she plays the drums, the way she dances, the manner how she executes her dubsmash, the line-blurring fansigns, or even the way how she dresses for an important event. It's like almost each time a significant day is on the roll, his mind's like "this I gotta see". His excitement can't be contained. He wanted to see her close and trace every inch of her in the recesses of his mind. He needed to see her to satiate his anxiety or calm his trembling anticipation. He wanted to be close to her and be a part of her world.

His smile says it all. He can't rub it off his face. And the longer the Kalyeserye played, the wider the smile became. The dimples became deeper. The beam in his eyes lasted longer. The happiness is reflected in his being.

The effort is truly fascinating. And even more amazing, he does the most surprising feats when the world is actually unaware of what's happening behind the scenes. His thoughtfulness is beyond the mark of an average guy. He could even be compared to a husband thinking of everything to make his wife happy. His creativity is just whoa! There seems to be no end to thinking of ways of how to make Maine feel special. The hat, the isaw, the flower writings on the floor, the heart locks, the standees, the pillows, the dolls, the chocolate wrappers, the pendant, everything. Some of them came from fans to express their admiration to the couple. But it's always Alden making the first move to show what's in store.

His fondness of being close to her, is without question, the most exciting of all. When he's able to grab the chance of calling her attention, he thinks of ways of how to keep his emotions intact with Maine's. Dubsmashing and fansigning may be ordinary. But the choice of songs and the things he write are full of affection. Writing Maine in the fansigns is no joke. Really, he's pushing to blur the reel and real, loving every second of being in that state of euphoria. He came towards Maine's parents, even when it was uncalled for. He loved the straw idea that ir evolved into ice cream and lollipop. Perhaps he liked it so much that he can't help himself to drink in Maine's glass when he had a moment to steal. Touching each other's hands was one thing, but to actually feel her lips in the same glass?! Oh seriously! The feeling just keeps on growing.

And there will be many more things we will see Richard Faulkerson Jr. would do to win Maine's heart, to make their relationship grow. Aktingan pa ba to? After all I have said, I'm a firm believer that the line between actors and lovers have already been crossed. Can you still pretend to be nothing special after everything they have gone through?!

Sam Yg, TVJ, Allan K, Ryan Agoncillo, even Wally and Jose, are having high hopes that what started back in July 16 would last forever, consistently developing day after day. And just like Tinidora and Nidora said, they're watching and their eyes are peeled in checking Maine's feelings from getting hurt. I am sharing that sentiment too. I don't want Meng to feel hurt. She seemed so fragile with this thing called Love that all fans can do is just to wait and see how everything would unfold.

I wish to see both of them holding hands on a stroll in the park. I wish I could see them buying groceries together. I'm praying that they would have that church wedding, exchanging vows with each other. I'm seeing their relationship to be that far-reaching. That they would have cute kids; that they would grow old together. Please, convince me that all of these would end for the best. The Faulkersons, the Mendozas, the EB Family, and the AlDub Nation are all wishing for the best to both of you.

Abounding Love is Divinity's Ultimate Beatitude

We are proud for who we are as a nation, a fandom that's all about peace and love. However, we have our limits and we tend to be worse than what we are trying to project. It is true to say that "The higher we are, the harder we fall." In my premise to this case, the higher our status is, as a fandom, the harder it becomes for us to keep up our reputation when something goes wrong. I am one with the many men that would protect Maine and Alden from any form of malicious and maligning statements created to tear down what is good and wholesome. But yielding ourselves to anger is not always the best solution. I know it can be hard to contain. Believe me, I have been in many situations where my unsuppressed feelings got the best of me, often making me learn lessons the hard way. And we do not want that to happen to the AlDub nation, knowing that mistakes of a few could generalize the whole group and tarnish our well-earned name.

We, as humans, are not used to accepting views and opinions that are contradictory to our own. As part of our nature, we tend to create justifications, excuses, and explanations as to why we are firm on our side of belief and choice. While it is noble for us to stay our foot on solid ground, there's also a thin line being marred as it happens; the line between protecting and defending.

When we protect, we keep everything safe, at the expense of our own, for the sake of coexistence and mutual interest. But when we defend, we take a course of action to rebut, counter, or reverse the damage being dealt, affecting the offending party and leaving either side scarred after an attack.

In the perception of protection, we use our concept of negating the hate, changing the mindset of the offender, either rendering the attack to nothing or non-impacting. It is the same principle of using a shield to block an attack and proceed with negotiations of peace or ending conflict through persuasion or reason. It's the same method we used for making #RIPAldenRichards a success or turning #AsalKalye from bad to good.

However, when we defend, the goal is to take revenge or get back at the offense made. It's like using the sword to block an attack. The instant we are able to develop a stance for reciprocating damage, and we create an opening, then we abuse that opportunity; thus, the culmination of bloodshed and afflicting the offender. We may be able to end the conflict at that point, but resorting to such methods will harbor more offense and hate; which, in turn, becomes the perfect ingredient for war.

To tell you, Maine and Alden have been consistent in reminding us to keep down and just say good things to others. The love team told us time and time again to remove the negativity and keep the good vibes rolling. In a way, staying away from a fight is the very model one person I know is doing. I want to share some things about him because he's a perfect role model to me, and maybe to the rest of us.

When this certain person lived, he discussed many things about putting down our pride and overcoming the old culture of "an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth." He had done away feelings of revenge. He even mentioned that we should be tolerant of the mistakes and offense of others; that when we are hit on one cheek, that we should give the other to be slapped. That when we are robbed of our clothes, that we give away our coat also. That we should love and pray for our enemies that they may be blessed. It may be a challenge to all of us, but that person knew it would be possible if we become as little children, slow to anger, wrath, and hate.

He had shown it by example to the believers. He has been accused of different crimes he never committed. Naysayers have made false statements against him. He was rejected, scorned, beaten, abused, spit upon, and punished, despite of being innocent and pure. His skin without blemish was lashed with the whips of misconception and misunderstanding. He kept his peace, he did not say a word to those who have reviled him of his identity and maligned him of his destiny. In the end, even in his last breath of life, he asked his father to forgive those who did not know what they do.

He had done everything he could. Some say that he's already perfect, a reason only acceptable for the divine to make. But he admonished at the end of his sermon that we should be perfect, even as his father is. He was subject to everything that all of us have experienced. He knew it was hard, but he knows it is possible.

Why bring this up? Because as humans, we tend to forget sometimes. Both Maine and Alden are God-fearing, peace-loving people. They, just like the rest of us, are also striving to be individuals of good moral standing. And they know getting in arguments and word wars do not give much benefit to us as persons. They are also trying their best to live the sermons they hear at church, or following the counsels of their parents.

So let's stop the bickering. Let's end the bad-mouthing. Let's get rid of the hate we feel in our hearts. I was also hurt when I saw Yaya Dub being called as Yaya Dog by a viewer from the other station. But I don't have to act against it since feeding the fire will only make things bad as it is. Worse, it may even result in the fandom being connoted as hypocrites because of my actions that may affect others who are living the decree of the AlDub Nation. So rather than pestering ourselves on the thought of getting back at them, let's just be thankful that people like them exist. Their existence bring into being the opposition that has been the fruit of the choices every people make. That what makes a person happy is different from the concept of one and another. Let's just pray that their words won't turn against them. After all, justice is served for the innocent, at the right place, at the right time, at the best possible circumstance.

Individuals are entitled to express their opinion, whether it agrees or opposes our view. They can say anything they want, as long as their objective is to voice out their thoughts, discuss their perception, and they mean no ill to anyone. It may not exactly be what we want, but respecting anyone's right for self-expression promotes improvement, development, growth, maturity, and progress.

There are two things I want to leave with you as I end this entry, which best describes AlDub through the sermons shared by the Son of God himself:

A-bounding
L-ove is
D-ivinity's
U-ltimate
B-eatitude

This he gave unto us because:

A-lways
L-oving
D-eserves
U-nfathomable
B-lessings

May we all be blessed as we, the AlDub Nation, do everything we can to "protect" the fandom that we hold so dear in our hearts.